What Did I Ever Do To You?

[Zephyr]

Just blowing some steam,
So sit back and read if you like.

Okay, so I have mentioned before that there is this girl that used to be my friend, but she decided that I apparently try to be the center of attention all the time since I'm Bipolar. But if you really know me, I'm just one of those people who has that kind of aura, I don't try, it just happens. After calling her out for being the fake and immature person that she is for talking smack about me behind my back, we agreed to get along but not talk to eachother.

Well, apparently after I left work today, she took the liberty of drawing her pushing me off of a cliff into a shark tank.

Now, thankfully my best friend Sarah was at work tonight and defended me, but I'm stilll raging mad.

Sure, she is proving my point that she's immature, but it still pisses me off.

This girl has no personality outside of humor. If she didn't have a sense of humor, nobody would like her because she's a wet blanket and does nothing with her life, she doesn't give a shit about anything and always criticizes before getting to the root of things, and she dares to pull a stunt like this?

Come on. Tell it to my face bitch, quit being fake for once in your life. You promised to keep it professional at work and you lied, so tell it my face.

I'm half tempted to go to work and draw a picture of me shoving a gun up her enormous ass. I have never said a word about her behind her back and I've tried to be nice and coexist, but I'm fed up!

Eh. I won't do that. It only makes me sink to her level.

I'm going to talk to my boss about it because quite frankly, what she is doing is unprofessional and against our agreemennt to keep it out of the work place. Hell, she wouldn't even have her job if it wasn't for me putting in a good word for her last year when she was pretending to be my friend. I have every right to let my boss know.

It's one thing to not like somebody and keep it to yourself or at least to yourself and your friends, but it's another to let everybody else at work know, even when everybody else at work likes me.

I hope she pulls her head out of her ass one day and realizes the truth, I am not somebody that you want to fuck with and betray.

It may sound like I'm blowing this out of porportion, but you don't do that sutff out in the real world and she needs to learn that.

Besides, nobody thought that her little drawing was funny except for herself.

[iJack]

Im sorry for you, but there are some people out there like that. Personally, it think there should be a colonization at the bottom of the ocean for people like them. She does sounl like a jerk, and you do to deserve that.

[Mzor203]

I'm glad you're able to deal with this in a good manner. It wouldn't do to go as low as she. I'm sorry you're having to deal with it. You meet some pretty stupid people as you go through life. It's tough, but it prepares you for life. We wouldn't be who we are today if our lives were perfect.

It shows how great a person you are being able to deal with this in a civilized manner.

[Zephyr]

Especially when I was temtped to go beat her sorry ass up a few hours ago...
But I'll just do it the right way by informing our boss since it really makes me feel that uncomfortable.

[Mr. Smithers]

Just try not to get the wrong impression of it. I mean she has her problems, you have yours. Thats just the way she deals with hers. She takes it out on others and she shouldn't do that. I am very sorry to hear that. You just go your way and she will go hers.

[Zephyr]

Well, the thing of it is that I shouldn't be her problem because I've never done anything to her.
Sure, I can accept the fact that she doesn't like me, no problem.
But when she brings it into the work enviornment after promising not to, that's the thing that she did wrong.
I've knows this girl for years, we grew up together, she has no problems.
Her life has always been white-picket-fence.
The only thing she has to worry about is what people think of her.

[Mr. Smithers]

Well then shes wrong. She shouldn't be doing that to you. Especially at work.

[Mzor203]

You're handling it just fine Steph. It's really not fair that you helped her get the job and now she's being like this to you. Just hold out, and it will turn out good in the end.

[Gumleaf]

don't let her get to you steph. your a better person for the way you are handling this situation. hopefully she'll stop it, but when people annoy me like that, i remember the saying "what goes around, comes around".

[Zephyr]

Okay, I feel better now :D
http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb291/essasteph/ratigan.jpg

[Mzor203]

Wow... uh... lol? WHat's that?

[love at first sight]

Tell your boss. She needs to learn a lesson.

[Zephyr]

Wow... uh... lol? WHat's that?

Haven't you ever seen TheGreat Mouse Detective?
I put her head on Ratigan's body:D
And I told my boss.
Apparently I'm not the first to complain about hher attitude towards me,
So we're supposed to all have a nice little chat on Sunday.

[Mzor203]

Haven't you ever seen TheGreat Mouse Detective?
I put her head on Ratigan's body:D
And I told my boss.
Apparently I'm not the first to complain about hher attitude towards me,
So we're supposed to all have a nice little chat on Sunday.


Glad it's working out.

[byee]

People, eh? I think what she's doing says a lot about her, and none of it positive. Be thankful it's only a drawing.

Although your irritation here is really understandable (and bully for you for not acting on it by actually doing or saying anything to her, it would probably only make matters worse!), it might be best to remember that the workplace is no place for feelings, that it's best to keep as much of your personal animosity out of that environemnt as possible. You're there to do a job, your boss expects both of you to work, and (this is really important) he's not a therapist. So, in preparation for Sunday's showdown, er, meeting, I think you should plan on sharing your concerns about how her attitude and behavior actually interferes with your ability to perform your job . Keep it focused on that, how she interferes with your performance. And (this is important!) keep all your feelings about her, or what she 'did' to you, or what you've done for her out of it.

[ScotsGirl]

Good advice Sam! :-)

Im sorry she is acting that way Steph. Sometimes people are just...really shit.
Its in my nature to question why she acts the way she does and I cant help but feel that there is probably more to her upbringing and family life than is known.

Not that that provides an excuse for the way she behaved. But it does provide some reasoning as to why she did.
A lot of the time attention seeking behaviour or the need to hurt other's feeling is a direct result of that persons own insecurities and feelings of lack of self-worth and things.
I feel sorry for her and I hope she learns the consequences of her actions before she has driven everyone around her away.

I hope Sunday goes alright. Like Sam said keep it work focused and stay cool. :-)
xxx

PS LMAO :lol3: at the picture!!!

[Zephyr]

A lot of the time attention seeking behaviour or the need to hurt other's feeling is a direct result of that persons own insecurities and feelings of lack of self-worth and things,

PS LMAO :lol3: at the picture!!!

It's funny you mention the attention seeking behavior thing, because she tries to tell me that I'm an attention seeker when I'm not.

It's also funny that you mention insecurities because we're both bigger girls, but when I dated my first and last boyfriend for over a year ,(he was an amatuer model), she always looked at me like she wanted to stab me everytime she would see us together because she still hasn't had a relationship of any sort. (Not jumping to any conclusions or anything, but she does this any time any of her friends get into a relationship and has nagative remarks about all of them).

I don't know. She's not a bad person, just a little immature and that's what is bothering me. When she decides that she hates somebody, it's DONE, she gives you no chance to talk it out because it's her way or the highway. I'm the 4th person she's done this, 'all of a sudden I hate your guts' thing to in the last two years. Oh well.

And thanks for the comment on the pic...
I showed my best friend today and she couldn't stop laughing,
Because the girl is somewhat of a rat at times.