boyfriends..?

[lxl]

yep i am 16 and im definitely know that i am gay
but yeah all my friends have gone out and dated with someone like at least once or twice
so i was just thinking when that time will come for me...
i mean it's hard to find a bf if you havent come out in whole public right?
hmm idk what im tryin to say... just want to know if it's kinda normal for gay guys to take a bit longer to have a relationship you know?
btw i cannot find a single gay guy in my school so... makes things soooo much harder

[Mr. Smithers]

Well I'm just going to say first off, its normal for a teenager not to be in a relationship. So don't feel left out if your friends talk about how they are with someone.

You will know the right time and you will also know the right person to have a relationship with.

And about the coming out thing, you will also know the right time to do that.

And finally, about not finding a gay guy at your school, this one I really can't help with with unfortunately. The only truthful thing I can is, waiting until your 18 and when you can go out to clubs and socials.

[Mirataku]

hey well i had no boy/girlfriends until i was 16
your time will come just wait :)

[MoveAlong]

hmm idk what im tryin to say... just want to know if it's kinda normal for gay guys to take a bit longer to have a relationship you know?

YES
It might and probably will take a longer time to find someone when you're gay, because more people are straight. But then again, once you finally find someone, it means more because you've both had the same troubles and face similar problems with your sexuality.
I'm gay and I'm probably not going to have a bf until I'm in college. I know that it's lonely and I know that all the straight people should be so happy because they get to have experience in a relationship when they're 12, 13, 14, 15, 16 etc, but we have harder times finding someone.

So once I get out of high school and get into college, I'm going to wear my gay pride band so I can advertise myself and maybe find a gay support club on campus or something. We may just have to wait longer. No problem, because we'll be more mature by then :D

[curiousteen]

same here almost everyone i know at skool is str8 and i dont feel comfortable knowing that i might be the only bi ( most likeely gay) person there thats a guy. but yea like flex said once i get out of high skool and go to college im letting myself out but not to much.

[notsure101]

yes it might take longer because there not as many gay guys as straight guys and they might be hiddin it to u no