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Pioneer92
May 25th, 2008, 02:13 PM
well my friend has been hanging out with this kid from one of his classes so we dont get to talk or hang out that much anymore. hes been making more and more plans with him every weekend and we always did something fun together over the weekend but this weekend we didnt do anything because he was with that other kid.

the logical side of me says hes hanging out with that kid because he never got to know that kid until recently and now he just wants someone new to hang out with. i guess thats understandable... but the illogical side of my says he doesnt like me as a friend anymore and this is his way of telling me so. im a paranoid person so im believing the illogical side more and more.

i just dont know what to do. i guess i could try to talk to him but i never get the chance to and my friend usually misses the point a lot. ill try to talk to him about something and he blows it off as not important (when it is to me) or he just doesnt understand it because hes mentally immature... not the typical 13 year old online jerk immature, but hes just not able to understanding the deeper meaning of things.

this weekend that kid stayed over his house 2 nights in a row (fri and sat) and then today he went over that kids house. next weekend its probably going to be the same thing. im not included in the plans because that other friend wants to hog him and because i dont like doing the things they do (they want to play halo and stuff together... honestly i find that boring).

i feel so lost :(

mr.sexy_bomb
May 25th, 2008, 02:44 PM
just try telling him how u feel about it

Mr. Smithers
May 25th, 2008, 05:17 PM
Well friends come and go. I have had so many friends that I have lost. The reasons were sometimes my fault, and sometimes their fault. But I went on. I made some new ones. I made some friends that I could go to if I had problems. Friends that would be able to IM me yesterday's homework because I was sick. You know, things like that.

lxl
May 26th, 2008, 02:59 PM
yep have a so called "best friend" who apparently doesn't seem to like hanging with me or having conversations with me...
yeah read my "top friends bullsh!t" topic

Rutherford The Brave
May 26th, 2008, 03:44 PM
Some people just aren't cut out to be friend with others, other times it just doesnt work out thats just how things go.

Medical Kid
May 26th, 2008, 04:49 PM
well heres my idea, what do you and your friend usually do? you may even find that the kid he hangs out with likes those things too, in fact maybe all 3 of you could be each others friends (please dont build up expectations exactly as I'm saying, this is just a bright possibility ) but try it out.