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hisfavgirl
May 23rd, 2008, 03:30 PM
I have a really good friends who has had a crush on me for a while now, and everyone knows it. What they dont know is that i like him back. I really want to go out with him, but i dont want to hurt the feelings of my other friends. Ive had a couple people tell me that he is only after me because of my chest, but he is the one person i know that talks to my face. Ive even walked up to him and asked his opinion about me, he said he really likes me, then i asked about my breasts, and he said they were 'amazing.' does he like me? should i go out with him?

gookmique
May 23rd, 2008, 03:47 PM
well if you confronted him about it, and he said he liked you, i would pressume he likes you! why shouldn't you go out with him? if you like him, and he has the same feelings towards you, i would definatly go for it! it could be a rewarding relationship!

Rutherford The Brave
May 23rd, 2008, 05:28 PM
Just do what feels right in your heart if you really like him the ask him out if you dont, well dont.

mr.sexy_bomb
May 23rd, 2008, 06:04 PM
i think u should since u both like each other

BeautifulSilence
May 23rd, 2008, 06:32 PM
Don't wanna sound like a grouch but, erm, just remember that most teen relationships don't work out and the break up usually loses you a great friend. If you wanna go for it than do!

Medical Kid
May 23rd, 2008, 06:52 PM
well I can understand why people would say that, your obviously a pretty girl, those people who tell you that are clearly jealous and dont want you both together, and if those friends really are your friends, they will be happy for you if your happy with your friend, hope the advice helps. :D

Serenity
May 23rd, 2008, 09:08 PM
I have a really good friends who has had a crush on me for a while now, and everyone knows it. What they dont know is that i like him back. I really want to go out with him, but i dont want to hurt the feelings of my other friends. Ive had a couple people tell me that he is only after me because of my chest, but he is the one person i know that talks to my face. Ive even walked up to him and asked his opinion about me, he said he really likes me, then i asked about my breasts, and he said they were 'amazing.' does he like me? should i go out with him?

Boy likes girl + girl likes boy = relationship.

Yay!

Why would you dating someone hurt your friends' feelings? I mean really...if that's all that's stopping, maybe you should take a look at your friendships. Do what you want to do, not what other people want you to do. If your friends are real friends, they'll be happy that you're happy. You like him, he likes you, what's holding you back?

Gumleaf
May 24th, 2008, 02:16 AM
Boy likes girl + girl likes boy = relationship.

Yay!

Why would you dating someone hurt your friends' feelings? I mean really...if that's all that's stopping, maybe you should take a look at your friendships. Do what you want to do, not what other people want you to do. If your friends are real friends, they'll be happy that you're happy. You like him, he likes you, what's holding you back?

valerie is right, if you both like eachother then there is nothing stopping you. i would go for it, you don't want to regret it later on if you don't. :)

ScotsGirl
May 24th, 2008, 06:19 PM
Boy likes girl + girl likes boy = relationship.

Yay!

Why would you dating someone hurt your friends' feelings? I mean really...if that's all that's stopping, maybe you should take a look at your friendships. Do what you want to do, not what other people want you to do. If your friends are real friends, they'll be happy that you're happy. You like him, he likes you, what's holding you back?

Yeeeeeuuup :yes:

As for the possibility of ruining a friendship if you break up...if its a good friendship and you both still want to be friends, then you will work it out :-)

xxx

pubertypimp
October 26th, 2008, 07:03 AM
you can't just fancy a girl for her tits.

Requin
October 26th, 2008, 07:13 AM
No true. But if you really believe that he loves you, then go for it.
You like him, he likes you, so go out with him!
In life you have to make choices, not all are perfect, not all are all that good, but in love, we have to walk into it blindly, otherwise we will find no love or compassion ever.

That is what our hearts desire. You want him, so ask him out.
In the famous last words of Dr Pepper, 'What's the worst that can happen?'.
:-)