I Pulled Away

[Willie Wonka]

I was taking a girl home, we were listening to my iPod, and then suddenly she tried to grab and hold my hand, but I pulled away...

Why? i dont feel comfortable yet around my parents. I like her, but I am kinda.... Shy...


What do I do, she seemed disappointed, but I like her too, and... Well... I just can be a little shy. :santa:

[Gumleaf]

just talk to her about and explain to her that you're a bit shy, but you do like her. if she likes you too she should understand.

[ScotsGirl]

I agree with Stephen, just talk to her about it :yes:
It will make her feel better knowing that its not because you dont like her. It will also bring you closer together because that isnt something you tend to talk about to just anyone and it lets her get to know you a little better :-)

Good luck!

xxx

[Willie Wonka]

Well...

Yestereday, we had field day, and it was kinda awkwered. At the end of thte day, a HUGE storm came through and we were all forced to all go into the boys bthroom (We had tornado warnings). After about 20 mins, I got a little causterphobic, and she of course made shore I was ok. When my mom got there we left (She was taking me and her home, and another frined). Wee decided to go to my house fofr little.... We did. She is a BIG fan of disturbia, so we watched that, we were all sitting in my bed, and she grabbed my hand nd this time took it. We were holding hands till like the middle of the movie. Then in thhe movie therer is herr fave scene where kale cconfeses what he sees bl bla bla... and she tells me to rewind (My friend is also here sitting next to her, the girl i like was in the middle). I go down, I see them tlkingn, I rewind, and then get back in bed, and when the scene came back again...... We kissed. Not a peck, we kissed.... I guess you cann say we made out, lol.



SO, everythting is cool, and that day, I asked her to be my girlfriend, and today, she said yes! YAAYYY!:yeah: :wub:

[Gumleaf]

wow, good for you mate, glad everything has worked out nicely for you. i hope you both have a happy time together.

[Jaxxxxxxx]

Kinda early for a kiss if you ask me, but whatever floats your boat, haha! So nevertheless, good for you!
Though one more thing that might help you from haveing this problem again is to do what I do. I am single though when I have a girlfriend and hangout with her, I talk to her about what I might expect and what I want to stay away from when you go on a date. So for an example...

Joe: Sarah, when we hangout tomorrow, I think I might want to share a kiss with you...only if your confortable.

Sarah: Yeah, I am not ready yet, though maybe next time I might be.

Now, don't say when your going to do it! That's a no no! Just tell her she might be expecting a kiss and in Joe's case he cleared that up so there is no ockward moments. Doing so also respects your partner's feelings/emotions and boundries. Talking to her about this should make her feel more confortable and a feeling that you care about her more then your hormones do!

Just remember, don't say when your going to kiss her if you tell her! No, I plan on kissing you at 5:36 P.M. after I drop you off. No, no!

...girls love a suprise, just as long as it's what you think they want.

[Willie Wonka]

Well, I have kinda liked her for a while now... We were vary close friends before dating...


and, I talked to her about it, she completly undeerstands. ;)

[Jaxxxxxxx]

Oh, okay. Then I see no problem with that. Not that my voice would matter, I just felt I wanted to put my input in. Awesome, always keep her in check! :yes: