suicide.

[alicia]

I don't know how to deal w/ this.
I've been worrying so much about being pregnant when I probably am not.

I wouldn't know how to tell my parents, and this situation is leading me to major depression.

I cry days on end, hoping that the anxiety would go away.
I've lost a lot of weight and feel really anti social.
I also have insomnia ( i can't sleep anymore )
It's getting so bad that I honestly feel suicidal at times and literally think about doing something all because i think that I might have conceived
I don't have the guts to get a pregnancy test.
I know if I were pregnant my first thought would be suicide.
Even though abortions are free in Ontario, I can't handle the emotional pain.
This is horrible and I've never felt this way in my life.

I think its all in my mind but it's getting real bad and i dont know how to cope.
Any suggestions? :(

[Camazotz]

Well first I would suggest taking a few deep breaths to calm down. You have to relax and get comfortable. When you can, you should try getting a pregnancy test. You may want to tell your parents (preffrebly mother, ask her to keep it secret for now because you father would probably get REAL angry) If you find out youre not pregnant, you can relax because it's all over. If you are pregnant, definitlly tell your parents and talk to them about an abortion.
--If at any point you feel overwhelmed, you can always see a doctor or psychitrist so they can help you with feelings or getting a test.

[Hyper]

So what do you hope to accomplish? Volunteer suffering & pain?

Take the test & get an answer otherwise you'll end up destroying yourself anyway, it might be that you are worrying about nothing.. Untill you haven't taken the test and found out for yourself we can't really say anything useful to you.

Take the pregnancy test and I definately wouldn't tell anyone, if you aren't pregnant nobody needed to know, if you are pregnant you have to tell your parents

[Zephyr]

Hun, it will be in your best interest to get a pregnancy test.
In the long run it will be better because you won't be so worried all of the time,
You'll have a lcear cut answer.
If it turns out pregnant, you always have a few options besides abortion if you couldn't handle it.
Suicide is never an option,
Your life is worth so much more than taking it over worries.
Pregnant or not, things will be okay.
I'm sure your parents would be a little upset,
But they would get over it and help you out.

If you need to talk privately, feel free to talk to me hun.
I've been there before, it's nerve wrecking, believe me,
But you're stonger than you think.

[CollegeHockey]

Hun, it will be in your best interest to get a pregnancy test.
In the long run it will be better because you won't be so worried all of the time,
You'll have a lcear cut answer.
If it turns out pregnant, you always have a few options besides abortion if you couldn't handle it.
Suicide is never an option,
Your life is worth so much more than taking it over worries.
Pregnant or not, things will be okay.
I'm sure your parents would be a little upset,
But they would get over it and help you out.

If you need to talk privately, feel free to talk to me hun.
I've been there before, it's nerve wrecking, believe me,
But you're stonger than you think.


I agree with her. Whatever you do, dont kill yourself. Your life is more important than you think. There is always an answer for everything.

[Uhh.Huhh RAN_DOM]

Suicide is not the way to go alright i've been there and so has my sister is not something to joke around about. just get a pregnacy test and if it tests postive then tell your mom first cause dads to get angry really easily espcially about their children so just calm down and slow down to let everything soak in. and hey if you are pregnant you can either get an abortion keep the child or give him/her away to an adoption agency.

[byee]

Well, at 14 this can't be good. Take a deep breath, and get the pregnancy test. knwoing is far better than worrying. Maybe you're not pregnant.

If you are pregnant, it's best to find out ASAP, so you have more options, and can assess them without the time constraints of a later pregnancy. I know this all sounds dreadful, but just do it, having info has a way of clarifying alot, which in itself, relieves anxiety. I know this sounds unreal, but it really works.

After you get the test, consider calling a Planned Parenthood agency in your location, they are staffed by caring people who do not charge for their time.

And do not forget to discuss with them contraceptive options for tomorrow so you can (hopefully) avoid this situation moving forward.

Good luck.