Now your just going to hate me.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Well, as some of you know my life is circling the drain at the mercy of others. My girlfriend who has been treating me rather badly since she entered her second trimester. Her bein grounded, and me being in debt and having to work 2 extra hours to make that money. At this point I lack the time to eat a real meal, and have been falling back on my past anerexia..... I went from an ok weight of 114 pounds to.....94 pounds. Im sorry just want to know if you guys don't hate me.

[iJack]

I dont hate you, and i dont see how anyone could hate you. If you need to talk, you can pm (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/private.php?do=newpm&u=8187) me any time here (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/private.php?do=newpm&u=8187)

[thesphinx]

Sounds like your having a rough time and its natural to fall back into previous behaviors so don't feel bad.
We don't hate you, but you have to try and not hate yourself.

[Medical Kid]

well try cooking a big meal, like a big hearty soup, really soothes the soul dude

[Rutherford The Brave]

Um not when your so stressed that food is about the last thing on your list, I just can't find it in me to eat.

[byee]

When you have an eating disorder, it's like this ongoing struggle. When you're stressed, you're more likely to regress and use it as a way of responding (inappropriately) to the stress. It's like a really bad habit, it just comes 'naturally', eventhough starvation is hardly natural.

What to do? Recognize that you're particularly vulnerable to not eating when you're stressed and make the time to eat! Make sure you're etaing, even if you're not really 'wanting' to. Just sit down and pick up the fork. Don't think about it, don't wait until you're 'in the mood', just recognize that you need to be in control of your stress by NOT giving in to the anorexia.

Eating doesn't need to be 'fun', it doesn't need to be gourmet. It's sustaining life and it's a way of winning, of beating your ED.

manga!

[alex_93]

if you can try and make a list of foods that you promise you will eat each day. Like plan your meals and snacks and 'tick them off' as you go along. I don't know if you have the time to do this but seriously you need to eat properly if you have a daughter on the way otherwise your going to be no use to her.

[Hyper]

Ohh and again.

[theOperaGhost]

I don't hate you. You're in a great amount of stress, but you need to find time to eat, whether you feel like it or not. Make sure to set aside a few minutes to eat something. It doesn't have to be a big meal or anything fancy, just so it's something. There's no reason for anyone here to hate you. You need to quit hating yourself. Start Eating Again!!!

EDIT: Sorry, I just realized that this was old.

[george]

That sucks. And I don't hate and will never hate anyone. I just dislike them lol jkjk but seriously I don't hate you. Can't your parents help you out with money problems? :(