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babygirl
May 20th, 2008, 07:22 PM
I'm a female, I've tried getting to my g-spot, and rubbing my clitoris, but it won't work. I don't increase breathing or anything, but I do think I get a few pleasant contractions like kind of feeling warm all over, I don't know how to explain it, but can some one tell me how I could get to orgasm faster?

Sugaree
May 20th, 2008, 07:28 PM
Well it would help us if you tell us your age and then we could get a better answer for you.

If may be because that you aren't stimulated by rubbing that specific area. How long have you been masturbating? How many times a week/day do you do it?

babygirl
May 20th, 2008, 07:31 PM
That depends, I sometimes just try, and usually it does not work.

babygirl
May 20th, 2008, 07:34 PM
I tried it today, nothing really happens because I'm not sexually aroused.

Sugaree
May 20th, 2008, 08:40 PM
Well then there's your answer! You aren't to a point of arousal and that's what it is! Problem solved.

And in the future please don't double post :)

mr.sexy_bomb
May 21st, 2008, 07:37 PM
we r no suppose 2 give masturbating techincs sorry

Maverick
May 21st, 2008, 08:12 PM
Moved to P101

Techno Monster
May 21st, 2008, 10:15 PM
Try to consentrate more to get aroused.

Kaleidoscope Eyes
May 22nd, 2008, 01:32 PM
A big part of the female orgasm is mental. That means, even if you're physically stimulated, you still need to be in the right state of mind or nothing happens. A lot of women find that fantasizing works pretty well. Just close your eyes and think about something that turns you on. It might help to find a time when you can devote maybe an hour to just sitting down and getting to know yourself, what feels good, what doesn't. There's nothing wrong with you if you don't reach orgasm right away, a lot of women have to masturbate several times before they get to a point where they can. Just relax and have fun with it.

Close102
May 22nd, 2008, 02:32 PM
try being arousesd and then do it. even if you dont touch your g-spot then you should still feel something. and if that doesn't work then look on google for teqniques.

Kaleidoscope Eyes
May 22nd, 2008, 04:46 PM
Oh, and on the g-spot topic, don't worry if you cant find it. Because of it's location, for many women it's hard to reach on their own without getting into awkward positions. Also, it's not there all the time. Yes, the tissue is there all the time, it's not like it goes away, but it doesn't really become stimulating until you're aroused.

doodledum
May 26th, 2008, 12:36 PM
i agree with Kaleidoscope Eyes. try to think of something that sexual excites you (it cud be ur boyfrnd if u have one or anything like that)

Close102
May 26th, 2008, 01:25 PM
ya i forgot to say that it is very hard to reachit on your own unless you are extremely flexible.

GRB123
May 26th, 2008, 06:44 PM
the g- spot is not the key to the female orgasm. It may produce a srtronger orgasm and make you squirt but the ultimate key is the clitoris (the litle bump above the hole)

forrealdude10
June 3rd, 2008, 01:18 PM
hey, i don't mean to be all gross or anything, but i know when i masturbate , i'll put one or two fingers in, and rub my clit with the palm of my hand and go faster when it feels like your about to have one. try it and see how it works :]

notsure101
June 3rd, 2008, 05:42 PM
Get some thoughts into your head that make u horny then try masterbaiting

Antares
June 6th, 2008, 08:49 PM
No offence but that account just screams fake to me.

If you think so then report the post. Otherwise it is considered spamming.

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