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scared
May 20th, 2008, 02:41 PM
Ok, i'm 15 and i think i'm gay, guy's do make me sexualy enrosed, more then girl's. and sometimes girl's cant even make me enrosed, I do think i'm gay but i'm not sure i really really REALLY dont watn to. how can i tell if i am.
curiousteen
May 20th, 2008, 02:46 PM
well r u physically and mentally attracted to guys? if u r its possible ur gay but if u also like girls then that will probably make u bi.
scared
May 20th, 2008, 02:48 PM
i'm only physically attracted to guy's, but metnly and physically attacted to girl's. so idk
Patchy
May 20th, 2008, 02:55 PM
During puberty your hormornes are imbalanced meaning your sexual feelings to the same sex/opposite sex will change, this doesn't mean your gay though since they may probably change again.
scared
May 20th, 2008, 02:56 PM
Yea that's what i'm thinking, that mabye it's just a "phase" but i still anit sure, it's been like this for a year.
Patchy
May 20th, 2008, 02:57 PM
yeah thats a great way to describe it :), yeah its probably a "phase"
scared
May 20th, 2008, 02:59 PM
i know everone is like it's ok to be gay, but frist i think i'm more bi then gay but everone around me is like ewww i hate gay people, becuase there's a gay person in our school and everone make's fun of him.
scared
May 20th, 2008, 03:03 PM
Also i'm more phsicaly attracted to guy's then girl's, but not what so ever attracted mentaly to guy's. i cant really see myslef with a guy in the future.
Sugaree
May 20th, 2008, 03:06 PM
Well it is hormones. You may be a possible bi-sexual
scared
May 20th, 2008, 03:10 PM
Hopefully, btww dont think i hate gay people i have lot's of bi, and gay freind's and there cool, i have nonthing agasit them, i just been raised of peopel telling me it's nnot ok to be bi or gay, and i just cant get that out of my head, well thx for the help, hopefully this is a phase and it end's soon.
marktheman
May 20th, 2008, 06:11 PM
I like messing around with guys. I havent really gotten into girls yet. But they say you cant tell when your in puberty because of your hormones. I call myself "curious"
notsure101
May 20th, 2008, 06:21 PM
If your mentaly and physicly attracted to men then yu may be gay.
Gavin
May 20th, 2008, 06:23 PM
I agree it's possible thats its a phase, sooner enough you'll found out what you are
Oblivion
May 20th, 2008, 06:27 PM
I think i'm kind of the same way.
I'm kind of physically attracted to guys, but i could NEVER see myself in a relationship with a guy, and i could NEVER see myself having sex with a guy. But like you i'm going through puberty (im 13), and it is most likely hormones. Even if it wasn't i would still consider myself straight, because i have no desire to be with a man
dogman
May 21st, 2008, 03:10 AM
shouldnt this be in teen sexuality??
dont worry about your sexuality, just do whatever feels good, its hard for anyone to determine thier sexuality during puberty with all the raging hormones and what not
The Batman
May 21st, 2008, 03:19 AM
If you really want to know if your gay or not then clear your mind of all the negativity you have learned about being gay and think of one thing: Can you see yourself in a serious relationship with a guy? I know you already said you don't but those other thoughts could have swayed that decision.
curiousteen
May 21st, 2008, 07:28 AM
im bi and i realized it once i hit puberty. rite now i can see myself wit a guy and doin it wit one but i dont see myself marring a guy. and im 14 still goin through puberty. im physically attracted guys and girls and mentally attracted so i consider myself bi.
LifeIsMyJoke
May 21st, 2008, 07:40 AM
This curiosity is all part of puberty mate.
If you are 15, then you are most likely still going through some confusing times regarding puberty. Generally things become clearer once you complete puberty.
I would classify you as "bi-curious" - if you are emotionally attracted to the opposite sex, as well as physically, then there is more chance that you will be inclined to lean towards the heterosexual aspect of sexuality.
Serenity
May 21st, 2008, 08:42 AM
shouldnt this be in teen sexuality??
The report post button ROCKS.
Moved.
mr.sexy_bomb
May 21st, 2008, 05:46 PM
time will tell ^.^
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