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rebbit
May 19th, 2008, 01:36 PM
I mean im almost 18 now, and I still haven't gotten laid. I wouldn't really care if we weren't in the fast pace society we live in today.

IM SKINNY, IM TALL, IM SMART, so what I still haven't gotten laid what the hell.

Maybe im shitty to hang out with.

BeautifulSilence
May 19th, 2008, 01:46 PM
Maybe you're supposed to hold onto your virtues until the right person comes along... ROUGHLY TRANSLATED MEANS: You may be one of the luckier ones.

curiousteen
May 19th, 2008, 02:01 PM
just wait for the rite person or u can go out and ask someone

Aηdy
May 19th, 2008, 02:10 PM
It's not a big issue.. just wait and the time will come one day. You'll find the right girl.

Rutherford The Brave
May 19th, 2008, 02:21 PM
I mean im almost 18 now, and I still haven't gotten laid. I wouldn't really care if we weren't in the fast pace society we live in today.

IM SKINNY, IM TALL, IM SMART, so what I still haven't gotten laid what the hell.

Maybe im shitty to hang out with.

Sorry I just really hate this term. Well, sex is often a relationship ruiner you really have to have a strong connection to someone and well sex when you aren't close with someone is well disgusting in my mind.

Maverick
May 19th, 2008, 03:10 PM
Why does it matter? You have sex then what? You expect your life to be dramatically improved? Maybe once you find the right girl things like sex will come along naturally.

-Silence
May 19th, 2008, 03:59 PM
And people wonder why we think men are pigs?

Serenity
May 19th, 2008, 03:59 PM
Amen sister.

Rutherford The Brave
May 19th, 2008, 04:08 PM
well, hey it brings light to the trojan commercial " Wear a dam condom!"

Underground_Network
May 19th, 2008, 04:17 PM
*Oink oink* :P

Anyways, just wait, the right girl will come along... Hopefully...

Actually, I hate saying that, because it's not always true... But I'm sure you'll find a nice girl, and all hope is not lost. You're not the only 18-year old virgin out there.

Aηdy
May 19th, 2008, 04:22 PM
And people wonder why we think men are pigs?

I agree!

Zephyr
May 19th, 2008, 04:43 PM
Sex isn't as great as it's hyped up to be.
Like everybody else said,
Just wait.
Sex happens when the time is right,
You probably won't even see it coming.
Hang in there.

The Batman
May 19th, 2008, 04:48 PM
If the only thing your worried about is getting laid then you'll never truly be happy, you should be trying to find someone to love, cherish, and be happy with first. Would you rather lose your virginity to some one night stand who is probably easier than a five piece puzzle or to someone that you love and will love you.

Medical Kid
May 19th, 2008, 05:44 PM
um, you know appearance isnt everything, I mean, those are nice qualities but you cant think someone automatically will like you for them, but um, I'm sure, since society is so picky about looks today, it will come to you eventually I guess.

Sugaree
May 19th, 2008, 05:44 PM
If this is really the only thing that matters, then as Thomas said, you'll never be truly happy.

Just wait until the right person comes along.

ThatCanadianGuy
May 19th, 2008, 06:36 PM
I mean im almost 18 now, and I still haven't gotten laid. I wouldn't really care if we weren't in the fast pace society we live in today.

IM SKINNY, IM TALL, IM SMART, so what I still haven't gotten laid what the hell.

Maybe im shitty to hang out with.

Well with an attitude like that, it's no WONDER you haven't "gotten laid" (ugh I don't like that term either). Men that have just that one thing on their mind are EASY for women to figure out. They can tell that's all your after so of course it'll be hard for you to get with someone unless they're extremely easy!

Look for a meaningful relationship above all else, like the others have said. Sex is something that should come as an added (and great :D) BONUS to a great relationship, NOT the other way around! :yeah:

gookmique
May 26th, 2008, 11:11 PM
I mean im almost 18 now, and I still haven't gotten laid. I wouldn't really care if we weren't in the fast pace society we live in today.

IM SKINNY, IM TALL, IM SMART, so what I still haven't gotten laid what the hell.

Maybe im shitty to hang out with.

I FEEL YOU BROTHA! AMEN!!

i'm 18, and still yet to have sex. the funny thing is, i've had so many opportunities, just never followed through with them. i have a girlfriend now, just waiting for that moment to happen i guess.

Whisper
May 27th, 2008, 02:21 AM
I mean im almost 18 now, and I still haven't gotten laid. I wouldn't really care if we weren't in the fast pace society we live in today.

IM SKINNY, IM TALL, IM SMART, so what I still haven't gotten laid what the hell.

Maybe im shitty to hang out with.

Maybe instead of focusing on "getting laid"
you should try and find someone you care about
Life isn't about just sex




And people wonder why we think men are pigs?

don't you start!
I have two sisters, I've seen things...horrible things
far worse than fuzzy socks even

kolte
May 27th, 2008, 11:26 AM
Or you can be me. I was sitting in a park downtown the other day, in my nasty work cloths, nose in a book. And some complete pervert came over to me sat down and tried to solicit me for sex. He was like rubbing himself and shit, and brushed his hand against my leg a couple times. Needless to say I was quite disgusted. not to mention he had yellow toenails which I could see jutting out all crazy like from his dingy flip flops. He talked to me for like ten min's all the while I didn't look up from my book. I told him I was flattered but not interested (with force) and then went to the library and smoked like four cigarettes in a row. *shivers* I'm glad I'm not desperate for sex. I could have ended up with a slit belly, bleeding out in an ally somewhere with tape on my hands and a gag in my mouth. Sex can be really amazing and inspirational, or ugly, tripe and cheap. Your choice.

byee
May 27th, 2008, 12:12 PM
Well with an attitude like that, it's no WONDER you haven't "gotten laid" (ugh I don't like that term either). Men that have just that one thing on their mind are EASY for women to figure out. They can tell that's all your after so of course it'll be hard for you to get with someone unless they're extremely easy!

Look for a meaningful relationship above all else, like the others have said. Sex is something that should come as an added (and great :D) BONUS to a great relationship, NOT the other way around! :yeah:


QFT! Perhaps you need to adjust both your attitude and your expectations?

Justwondering
May 27th, 2008, 08:15 PM
And people wonder why we think men are pigs?

Lol, Im a male and think you are right, Some people give us a bad rep :P, but anyways to the original post, dont worry the time will come, and when it happens I hope you find the right person to share the experience with.

Mannequin
May 27th, 2008, 10:23 PM
lol, heather. i wouldnt go there. being a slut for a girl is becoming more and more exceptable. girls are the ones that have led males to believe that it should be easy to get laid (which it really is...im just gay). lol

My name is cody and i wanna have sex.


good for you man!!! :)

ScotsGirl
May 28th, 2008, 06:38 PM
Why does it matter? You have sex then what? You expect your life to be dramatically improved? Maybe once you find the right girl things like sex will come along naturally.

I agree! :-)

Why is it that important to you rebbit?
I hope you re-evaluate your list of priorities before you end up doing something you regret.

xxx

notsure101
June 4th, 2008, 05:43 PM
Just wait for the right person dude

ssgliberty
June 5th, 2008, 11:07 PM
just wait untill you feel in your hart this is the one for me

LuvTitanicxxJack
August 29th, 2008, 01:53 PM
Don't say, 'why didn't it happen?' because later you will be saying 'It was worth waiting for, and It was with the one I love.' No regrets if you don't rush it.

Zephyr
August 29th, 2008, 01:58 PM
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