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Palm kid
May 18th, 2008, 09:23 PM
the day i find out that for the first time in 3 years i get a gf broke up with me 2day she said she wanted to wait till summer, it was hard enough for me to allow myself to get involvd with someone and trust that it will last but no, we hadnt even seen each other yet, also let me add she is my closest friend, im like crying because i have not had my first kiss yaet and last night i had the most realistic dream of us kissing and now im thinking about cutting myself but i wont, i just need help because i am so crushed emotionally right now

Serenity
May 18th, 2008, 09:26 PM
TWPR :arrow: R&D

Just remember relationships are most certainly not all there is to life. Even if you're not dating, at least you still have a really close friend which is one of the most precious things anyone could ask for. Just be patient and be willing to wait. I don't think there's anything at all wrong with not having had a girlfriend at the age of 14. I'm 17 and I've had one 'boyfriend' who lasted a whopping 2 very awkward weeks. *shrug* there are much more important things to think about.

Palm kid
May 18th, 2008, 09:30 PM
the thing is ive been going through a personel crisis lately and its just i dont feel wanted at all lately and the best thing i thought could happen to me was once again to good to be true

Serenity
May 18th, 2008, 09:36 PM
Listen. A girlfriend is definitely NOT the best thing that could happen to you. The best thing that could happen to you or anyone in the world is being comfortable and happy with yourself. Yes, relationships are great. But that's not all there is to life. And it's not too good to be true- now just isn't a good time for her. Patience. The time will come, you just need to wait for it. Worry about friends, not girlfriends. They're by far what's more important.

Palm kid
May 18th, 2008, 09:38 PM
i understand what u meen i just see it differently in my eyes because that made me feel good about myself for the first time in a long time

dodgeman09
May 18th, 2008, 09:46 PM
every relationship wont work out thats just life. i takes time toget over a broken heart like val said be willing to wait. but dont hide ur self dont be afraid to talk to the new kid im 17 and i only got my first true kiss a few months ago.... love takes time

Skyer
May 18th, 2008, 10:30 PM
Thats a good experence being broke up with. It will teach you to be stronger and feel pain. The more pain you feel, the stronger you are which will help you overcome future breakups..

mr.sexy_bomb
May 18th, 2008, 11:39 PM
oh i am sorry

Rutherford The Brave
May 19th, 2008, 02:18 PM
Thats a good experence being broke up with. It will teach you to be stronger and feel pain. The more pain you feel, the stronger you are which will help you overcome future breakups..

Listen This here post means nothing to you. Ok I know its hard being broken up with, its not fun. But you have to remember that there are more than one girl out there. Plus true love takes a while to find

LifeIsMyJoke
May 20th, 2008, 06:57 AM
Break ups are all part of growing up man, I know its hard, and at the time you feel like your world is over. But you are only 14, and at that age, there is a certainty that somebody else will come along ... And then someone else, until you finally meet the right person.

It will happen, dont worry :)