the last one i promise xD

[Stuart_Bendson]

ok guys this is the last weird problem i have then i will try and stop bugging you all.. so this girl who i have been referring to on countless number of times, did something very weird this week which gave me a very weird new picture of girls. I'm not handling it very well and had to stay of school because i was so upset about it. so this girl..we've been fooling around for about a month now. It got serious when we went to France on a school trip. we started kissing eachother on the Thursday after the whole day whispering to eachother "i love you" and blowing eachother kisses. she was single at the time so i didn't do anything wrong and the Saturday after that we had this great kiss(with tongues) which i will never forget ever!. but she then said we can't kiss again until I'm over my last boy-friend which i went along with..i mean thats the closest we got..and we even lay in the same bed together half-naked just hugging eachother..i loved it and loved her truly as well. then about 2 days ago she said..i just want to be friends and that she only did that stuff to see if she liked me or not..but this left me horribly upset and i dont know what she is thinking..i mean could that be the only reason..she can't have done the stuff she did without it meaning something..please advise me about this as i was left very Bewildered and upset.......plus this week she has been acting really weird and like i have never seen her..i mean she has issues but im so frustrated

[mr.sexy_bomb]

yeah well she is a player like me xD

[ScotsGirl]

I think if you want answers, then its probably best you talk to her about it again. It sounds like she may be avoiding you? So that could be difficult, and possibly awkward (but it doesnt need to be!).
If you really want to know the honest truth, then make sure she knows that. Take charge of the situation when talking to her, and tell her that you want to know what the deal is, feelings aside. It may not be what you're wanting to hear, but whatever she says, if it is the truth, then appreciate that she had the decency to tell you when you asked. Maybe you can be friends from there? :-)
Just one thing, you say she "has issues", are these relevant to what has happened with you?

Either way, I hope things work out for the best :-)

On another note, you can always post here asking any weird and wonderful questions you have. Thats what we're here for, so dont ever feel bad for asking anything :-)

xxx

[Stuart_Bendson]

she has issues at home..and i don't know if this effects her mentally..shes sometimes seems to not know what she is saying fully.

[Rutherford The Brave]

yeah well she is a player like me xD

"player"? I'll leave it at that.

Maybe she just can't commit to a relationship, doesn't mean she doesn't love you its just she maybe having some problems with parents.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

well time is the answer ^.^

[ScotsGirl]

she has issues at home..and i don't know if this effects her mentally..shes sometimes seems to not know what she is saying fully.

I see.
You're right that could effect her.

I still think you should talk to her, she has all the answers you need to know. It may not be the most wonderful conversation you ever have in your life, but it may provide you with answers to the questions you want to know.

Good luck with things! :-)

xxx

[Nihilus]

Um ya you should talk to her. but ya I hope everything goes well.