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Random_oso06
May 17th, 2008, 02:31 AM
well my younger brother has to share a room now that there using his for my baby sister, i usally sleep naked or with boxers b/c i feel suficated with clothes i'm tired of wearing clothes and it's the first month got any ideas how to help

Patchy
May 17th, 2008, 03:09 AM
I guess thats a embarrassing situation however how younger than you is your brother cause if he goes to bed earlier and is asleep by the time you go to bed, he shouldnt see at night however....the mornings Im not too sure, is he usually up first or something?

Random_oso06
May 17th, 2008, 03:10 AM
no i am but i'm use to waking up naked then taking a shower

Patchy
May 17th, 2008, 03:21 AM
I would try it once, if he sees...see how he reacts, if hes not really bothered just start doing it, if he is like omg what are you doing just say its natural etc.

Random_oso06
May 17th, 2008, 03:33 AM
he all ready saw u no what i'll do it i don't care

Patchy
May 17th, 2008, 03:44 AM
good stuff, its perfectly natrual if hes staying in your room, don't let him intrude on your life so much that its disturbing your sleep etc

dogman
May 17th, 2008, 05:55 AM
yer, i say do what you feel is right, if sleeping naked is right, then do it, however, dont force him to see to much, as this could affect your relationship, just try and cover up as much as possible around him

Antares
May 17th, 2008, 09:58 AM
How old is he?

I think maybe youu should just wear boxers. No more, then he won't see your penis and you won't feel as confined.

But that is depending upon his age so yea how old is he?:P

Maverick
May 17th, 2008, 10:33 AM
Moved to Family and Friends.

Sugaree
May 17th, 2008, 11:55 AM
Depending on his age, I would just wear boxers and wait until he gets a room if he ever does

Maverick
May 17th, 2008, 01:35 PM
Your brother didn't ask to move into your room but instead circumstances put him there. You want to be comfortable but since it is partially his room now, you have to meet each other halfway and compromise to make sure hes comfortable, too. Just tell him you prefer to sleep wearing nothing and ask if its a big deal. Worst come to worst you can aways put clothes on after you wake up seeing that sheets cover you anyway.

byee
May 18th, 2008, 02:13 PM
There are a lot of adjustments that come with a new sibling! And for you and your bro, it's sharing a room and the loss of privacy that (unfortunately) accompanies that. Hopefully, this situation is temporary and you'll have your own space soon. You might want to ask your folks about this. Somehow, it's usually easier to make changes when you know they're temporary.

Until then, eventhough you might not want to hear (or do) this, because your bro is younger, it' best for you to be a bit more modest and wear boxers or PJ's. It's not such a big deal, I think you might be responding more to having to make an unanticipated (and unwanted) change. However, with a new sib, you'll be making a lot of changes, so this is really good practice.