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MoveAlong
May 17th, 2008, 01:44 AM
A lot of straight people (guys and girls alike) wonder about their sexuality, because it's just normal, right?
And when you hear that someone in their teens comes out or says that they're gay or bisexual, you think that they don't have any more problems with defining their sexuality, right? Like, they're done with that problem and you think they're completely past it, right?

Well that's what I thought. But I was wrong, or at least in my case.
So I figured out that I was gay when I was 12. Then for about 3 years, I had no doubt. But since I've been going to a public school, and taking a weight training class, I've been exposed to a lot of jocks and that whole atmosphere. I was really wondering what they saw in girls.
So for a few months before I turned 15, I was curious, even though I know I like men. I was curious about girls, looking at straight porn. I even fantasized (and still kind of do) about women.

But I know I still like men, and over the past few weeks I'm still pretty sure that I'm gay, not bisexual. So it is possible to know that you like the opposite sex, but still be unclear about your sexuality! who knew :rolleyes:
I guess you have to get past puberty, when your hormones settle down, for you to really know :D

so yeah, that's my random thought.

Sage
May 17th, 2008, 01:51 AM
What's her name? I demand you tell me her name.

Ahaha, jokes, jokes. I've not got much to say, but I do believe you can never be 100% certain about anything, at any time.

dogman
May 17th, 2008, 06:06 AM
i think its possible, i mean, that's like i, i am pretty sure that i like women, no one in puberty can be 100% sure, but i like to look at penis's, i have had some gay fantasies, thought about other guys, but i have never actually thought a guy was "hot" or ever wanted to go out with a guy, its a pure physical attraction, so i think its probably just curiosity

mr.sexy_bomb
May 21st, 2008, 07:42 PM
oh i know people like u k bye

curiousteen
May 22nd, 2008, 02:02 AM
hey i feel the same way but its hard explain why.

Serenity
May 22nd, 2008, 03:06 PM
I have a lesbian friend who wrote this note on Facebook bitching about curious girls b/c you make an emotional investment and then they decide nevermind they're straight so then the girls who thought they'd found someone to be with were just left in the dust watching the formerly-curious girls run off with their boyfriends.

Well this same friend admitted a week later that she questions her sexuality and the week she wrote that note on Facebook she slept with 3 guys and 4 girls.

Hyppocrite? Um YEAH.

*twitch*

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