MoveAlong
May 17th, 2008, 01:44 AM
A lot of straight people (guys and girls alike) wonder about their sexuality, because it's just normal, right?
And when you hear that someone in their teens comes out or says that they're gay or bisexual, you think that they don't have any more problems with defining their sexuality, right? Like, they're done with that problem and you think they're completely past it, right?
Well that's what I thought. But I was wrong, or at least in my case.
So I figured out that I was gay when I was 12. Then for about 3 years, I had no doubt. But since I've been going to a public school, and taking a weight training class, I've been exposed to a lot of jocks and that whole atmosphere. I was really wondering what they saw in girls.
So for a few months before I turned 15, I was curious, even though I know I like men. I was curious about girls, looking at straight porn. I even fantasized (and still kind of do) about women.
But I know I still like men, and over the past few weeks I'm still pretty sure that I'm gay, not bisexual. So it is possible to know that you like the opposite sex, but still be unclear about your sexuality! who knew :rolleyes:
I guess you have to get past puberty, when your hormones settle down, for you to really know :D
so yeah, that's my random thought.
And when you hear that someone in their teens comes out or says that they're gay or bisexual, you think that they don't have any more problems with defining their sexuality, right? Like, they're done with that problem and you think they're completely past it, right?
Well that's what I thought. But I was wrong, or at least in my case.
So I figured out that I was gay when I was 12. Then for about 3 years, I had no doubt. But since I've been going to a public school, and taking a weight training class, I've been exposed to a lot of jocks and that whole atmosphere. I was really wondering what they saw in girls.
So for a few months before I turned 15, I was curious, even though I know I like men. I was curious about girls, looking at straight porn. I even fantasized (and still kind of do) about women.
But I know I still like men, and over the past few weeks I'm still pretty sure that I'm gay, not bisexual. So it is possible to know that you like the opposite sex, but still be unclear about your sexuality! who knew :rolleyes:
I guess you have to get past puberty, when your hormones settle down, for you to really know :D
so yeah, that's my random thought.