Am i going through a phase?

[jacketkiller34]

Since i was 11 i started have strong feelings for the opposite sex (girls). Now i am 13 But about 9 months ago i started to get erections from thinking of guys and a few months later i started to become attracted to men. That is still going on. however at the same time i still get erections to girls and have feelings for girls. I think that my attraction for men is becoming stronger does this mean that im gay or bisexual? Or am i going through a phase?

[kolte]

It happened to me. I'm gay. Maybe your just going thew a phase, but don't go threw life denying your feelings. The times have changed, most people don't care if your gay when you older, but I wouldn't go telling everybody. High school can be rough. But once your out, theres nothing to fret over.

[dogman]

... going thew a phase...

nice spelling, through

anyway i would say its a phase, just rememeber, if your gay, you have a physical and emtional attraction to men

[LifeIsMyJoke]

The phase you are going through is called puberty I believe. Its perfectly normal, and I wouldn't go hastily making any decisions too soon.

Once puberty is finished things will be clearer, and if you turn out to still have strong feelings for the same sex, so be it, you are gay!

Nothing to be ashamed about.

[Nihilus]

you are going through puberty so you are probaly just a little curious. You have to wait and decide if yo are gay or not when puberty ends.

[Techno Monster]

Yes, this is, truly a phase.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

i think u r bi like me ^.^

[robbiehay1]

Your going through puberty which is a very confusing time in a mans life and lots of things are changing and happening in your body, your mind gets confused and your hormones are raging so you may not be bi or gay but even if it turns out you are don't worry :)

[ScotsGirl]

I agree with what everyone has said so far :-)
Puberty makes you feel that way, and as robbiehay1 said, your body is changing and your hormones are going crazy.
It is perfectly normal to feel attracted to both sexes.

Try not to be so quick to label yourself. It doesnt matter if you're gay, straight or bisexual. The chances are you wont know for sure until puberty is done and your hormones have calmed down, and even then, you may be open to experimenting. :-)
Whoever you happen to find attractive, doesnt change the person you are.
xxx

[Sugaree]

You may be bisexual. It's not a big deal. But you are young and have a few more years to decide

[notsure101]

It may be hormones but it could be a phase

[ssgliberty]

you say you have fellings for girls and boys it is a possibility that you are bi (like me) but it is proboly that you are curios or it `s proboly hormones