just a phase?!

[lxl]

ok so lately i had all these paranoid thoughts about a friend... i mean we are close (far as i know) and ever since the new semester, things changed... we don't see each other anymore and stuff... but when i call or txt my friend i never receive any replies and stuff so im thinking this is so unusual from the past seems like we are falling apart...
so that would be my paranoia crisis, which is just driving me nuts for no reason...
and along with that, lately i also had these concerns about my friendships with others and like how much frineds i have compared to others, again for no particular reason... i mean it's not constant thought like when im occupied at school and stuff but when im home and i have those thinking time these thoughts just race through my mind all the time, and im really getting stressed out... i mean like even last year or so i was carefree of my friends and you know, just went with the flow, but now i am so concerned for no reason, and i think all these paranoid stuff is breaking my social life and my friendships apart
i dont know if this is just one of those phases that people may go through, but it also might be some mental problem... oh please i just need some answers or comfort....

[thesphinx]

I went through something like this too, I was scared that I didn't fit in with my friends anymore I was paranoid about everything I did around them and if they didn't laugh at a joke I thought they didn't like me anymore.
What I went through sounds a lot like what you are going through.

I think it could be some what of a phase but what I had to eventually do is just tell myself that those thoughts are not real and that there isn't any real reason I should be feeling them and they eventually went away.
Don't worry it will pass :)

[Uhh.Huhh RAN_DOM]

yah i sorta have that feeling too... i always feel like iam gonna end up as a social outcast but yeah as sphinx said your situation seems much more worse

[lxl]

I went through something like this too, I was scared that I didn't fit in with my friends anymore I was paranoid about everything I did around them and if they didn't laugh at a joke I thought they didn't like me anymore.
What I went through sounds a lot like what you are going through.

I think it could be some what of a phase but what I had to eventually do is just tell myself that those thoughts are not real and that there isn't any real reason I should be feeling them and they eventually went away.
Don't worry it will pass :)

duuude that is exactly how i felt!! lol im glad im not the only one going thrugh such crisis
thanks a lot! :)

[ctw4451]

Yeah, I think it's a phase. I think everyone has certain little things they go through, and they mature and develop from it. It's better to worry about your friendships than to not worry at all, which shows you're a caring person. It'll probably pass, but man, you just have to convince yourself that things are alright, and that those feelings just aren't real.

For you and your best friends, sometimes best friends fall apart, but sometimes they reunite. It's a lesson in life you have to learn, and maybe it's not over, and maybe you two can get to hanging out again. That'd be good to see, but if not, there's more people out there to chill with. =)