Not Emotionly Available?

[Justwondering]

Well I dated my best friend for 2 years, and when we broke up I was still in love with her (Still am) but we have drifted apart. Ever since we broke up, Im not interest in dating anymore at all. Any suggestions and/or advice, similar stories.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

no thats not me but i do know of people with this problem u just have 2 go u join new things and u will find some1 4 u

[ScotsGirl]

When did you guys break up?
A 2 year relationship is a big deal, especially if it is your first/longest.
It can take a long time to cope with the break up of a relationship. It is essentially grief for something that once was, but is now gone.
People handle it in lots of different ways, so there is no "how to get over it" list that you can work your way through and then everything is fine.
There are things you can do which can help you cope though. Acknowledging and accepting that the relationship is over is probably one of the biggest steps. You can never get over someone if you arent sure if the relationship is really over. After that, its good to talk and to have fun without her. Thats what friends and family are for.
There are a lot of advice and information websites about relationships maybe you could have a look around?

The way your feeling is perfectly normal, but you can and will feel like seeing other people. It just takes time.

Good luck with everything :-)
xxx

[Nihilus]

When did you guys break up?
A 2 year relationship is a big deal, especially if it is your first/longest.
It can take a long time to cope with the break up of a relationship. It is essentially grief for something that once was, but is now gone.
People handle it in lots of different ways, so there is no "how to get over it" list that you can work your way through and then everything is fine.
There are things you can do which can help you cope though. Acknowledging and accepting that the relationship is over is probably one of the biggest steps. You can never get over someone if you arent sure if the relationship is really over. After that, its good to talk and to have fun without her. Thats what friends and family are for.
There are a lot of advice and information websites about relationships maybe you could have a look around?

The way your feeling is perfectly normal, but you can and will feel like seeing other people. It just takes time.

Good luck with everything :-)
xxx

She took alot basicly from my mind and mouth (dunno how to put it) but what she said.

[Justwondering]

When did you guys break up?
A 2 year relationship is a big deal, especially if it is your first/longest.
It can take a long time to cope with the break up of a relationship. It is essentially grief for something that once was, but is now gone.
People handle it in lots of different ways, so there is no "how to get over it" list that you can work your way through and then everything is fine.
There are things you can do which can help you cope though. Acknowledging and accepting that the relationship is over is probably one of the biggest steps. You can never get over someone if you arent sure if the relationship is really over. After that, its good to talk and to have fun without her. Thats what friends and family are for.
There are a lot of advice and information websites about relationships maybe you could have a look around?

The way your feeling is perfectly normal, but you can and will feel like seeing other people. It just takes time.

Good luck with everything :-)
xxx

We broke up 2 almost 3 years ago, And I still love her