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Medical Kid
May 13th, 2008, 05:49 PM
ummmmmm well I'll start by saying that um, well I have this cousin, hes really perverted and stuff (hes 15 so its normal I guess) he shows this 10 year old kid porn and stuff, I do get horny and occasionally masturbate, but I'm not so big on porn, so that I get to my point here, I'm sorta afraid he will try and get me to masturbate with him, I dunno, it just seems uncomfortable, (I'm visiting him this summer) and if I refuse, I don't know what he'll say, I might be fun, or kind of awkward, what should I do?
P.S. I'm 13 sooooo that should explain why I'm not all that thrilled about it, and I posted this cuz I'm almost positive thats what he'll do, he almost did last time I visited him.......
RaisingSand
May 13th, 2008, 06:06 PM
If you're uncomfortable with it, don't. Just tell him that you don't want to and walk out of the room. As someone older than you, and a family member, he shouldn't be doing this in the first place.
If he's upset/angry and takes this out on you in some way, tell an older, trusted family member.
Medical Kid
May 13th, 2008, 06:08 PM
no like, I KINDA want to, but its so weird, I mean hes so cool all the time and I hate letting him down, but at the same time, if we are caught, who knows what trouble I'll get into?
Oblivion
May 13th, 2008, 06:12 PM
Child porn is very illegal... And if you don't feel comfortable with him and his porn, just say 'Hey Stop. I dont want your porn, and i don't want to masturbate with you' Good luck, and like Lauren said, if he gets angry or upset, tell someone. He has no right to force you to do anything
[Edit: Hmmm if you just aren't doing it because you don't want to be caught, then i'd say either dont do it, or wait until your alone for a while]
Antares
May 13th, 2008, 06:43 PM
I was having this same issue last summer also. I was going to go to a friends house and I was scared he was gonna do the same thing. Anyways, I just went there and he did not mention it. So I don't think he will bring it up but in case he does you can just say, "Uhh...I'm not really into that but we can go outside and play football :D". Idk don'y use that but try to change the subject while being blunt and saying no.
Random_oso06
May 13th, 2008, 11:16 PM
try to change the subject if he try's or like walk away from the room
dogman
May 14th, 2008, 02:56 AM
if you dont want to do it, aviod the situation, if hes in his room on his comp, dont go in there, if he asks if u wanta go on the comp, do something else
Medical Kid
May 14th, 2008, 04:18 PM
oh no! no no no, not OF a ten year old child, he shows porn, TO a ten year old child, hes not pedo or gay.
silentc0re
May 14th, 2008, 04:25 PM
Dude just walk away or say u gotta use the bathroom and pretend to have dirrareah (sry idk how to spell it) and sit in there for a while and if he asks again just say "nah sry dude i dont want to."
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