Concerns

[rEpReSsIoN.?]

This is not about me but about my dad who is marring his girlfriend who is 25 and he is going on 50.
I have been having these thoughts rushing through my head that are:
-He started the affair with her after his mum had just died, could it of been the shock or grief.
-He is leaving lot of his money to her, she could only be with him for security and so she has a regular income, and she gets money and a house when they are married.
-Could it be male middlife crises does he really love her?
-When she is 35 she will not want to live with a 65 year old and divorce him.
I don't think they should be married. I don't want to see him hurt.
Should I tell him how I feel about his marriage? Or should I let him get on with it.

And after marriage she want a child I?m not sure I could coupe with that.
Sorry if there are any grammar or spelling mistakes.

[teencrazykid]

Talk to your dad about your concerns, and let him see your point of view. If he still marries her without talking to you about how you feel, maybe it is a midlife crisis and he "just wants some." If you think this 25-year-old woman is just marrying your dad for the simple fact that she wants money, and he has decided to leave everything to her, does he really care about you? After his mom died-that could be stress. If you want to talk more about this, pm (private message) me.

[TheWizard]

He won't listen but give it a try.

[Whisper]

hmmm.....I think i'd slaughter the gold diggin bitch :)

[kolte]

now now whisper, lest be rash ^^ well stake 'em to a wall and lynch him tehe

[bbychop]

I understand how that goes, my mom is with a guy that is like 20 years older than her, but they can't get married but still. All you have to do is talk to your dad and tell him how you feel. It may not work out at first but it will in the long run (I'm still waiting for that time though). Hope it works out for you.