Log in

View Full Version : Is it ok?


Natoja12
May 12th, 2008, 06:53 PM
Is it ok to masturbate with a friend.

Sugaree
May 12th, 2008, 07:42 PM
It's ok to masturbate with a friend. We get this most of the time in the guys puberty forum and the teen sexuality forum.

This is all natural due to natural curiosity

Kaleidoscope Eyes
May 12th, 2008, 10:01 PM
As long as both of you want to masturbate together, there's nothing wrong with it. As Dragons said, its just natural curiosity.

ThatCanadianGuy
May 12th, 2008, 10:10 PM
There always seems to be alot of taboo towards this; like that it can do more harm to a friendship than fun and stuff. But honestly I don't see a problem with this sorta thing if both people want to do it; it actually isn't all that uncommon. Everyone I know talks about masturbation in our day to day conversations like it's no big deal. But I know that if anyone ever said "what the hell... why don't we!" the person being asked would probably be excited to do it to.

Heck, some even see it as a sort of way to "bond" and get closer to a friend (since you're sharing something with them that's usually private, its a big message to eachother that you both have a lot of trust between you).

So if you know for SURE that you both want to do it.... have fun! :yeah:

The Pretender
May 13th, 2008, 03:02 AM
....

american_idiot
May 13th, 2008, 03:18 AM
as long as you and your friend is ok with it, then yes it is fine.

silentc0re
May 17th, 2008, 08:23 PM
Its alright.

rockgibson15
May 25th, 2008, 03:26 PM
yeah go right ahead. you may find that it gets you more aroused and it feels better if some else is masterbating you.

sara1220
May 25th, 2008, 04:36 PM
like everyone else said... its perfectly fine & perfectly normal as long as all of you are ok with it. i do it with my 2 best friends when we have sleepovers.

byee
May 26th, 2008, 11:56 AM
Wait a second. Nobody can really tell you if something is OK for you, only you can determine that, Jessica. They can share their opinion, but that opinion is really personal, it relates only to them and their feeings and values. It's not a one size fits all answer.

You might consider (or try to consider) what the consequences of this (or anything, for that matter) behavior might be. How will you likely feel? How might it change the relationship with whoever it is you do this with? How comfortable with yourself (and her) might you be afterwards?

Lots of questions to ask yourself before you try something new that also involves another person (and their feelings and issues). Only you can answer that, based on knowing yourself.

Close102
May 26th, 2008, 01:24 PM
as long as you both want it, one of you isn't supprised, and you use protection it should all go good.

notsure101
June 4th, 2008, 09:01 PM
Yup, its hormones and its curiosity