Help!!! :(( (13-14)

[sow_92]

My brother always used to watch adult stuff in the Middle of the night and I can't help but just eavesdrop.Now I can't stop thinking about these"things" and thats supposed to be TOTTALY forbidden in my religion! To make things even better, my friends won't shut up about these things! I just wish that my mom and dad, and my friends will understand if I tell them, because it'll be easier for me to get rid of these dirty thoughts.:(

[Mzor203]

Hello! Welcome to the forums!

First of all, you should understand, as you're going through puberty, you're going to think about these things. No matter who you are, it's gonna happen. Your parents thought about these things when they were growing up, if you go to church, everyone in you church has thought about these things when you went through puberty. Your mind is programmed by nature to start wanting to have children so you can further the human race, and that means you will be thinking about things like sex. It is going to be really hard to not ever think about these type of things when you're growing up. It may seem hard, and like you're going against your religion, but it's a natural reaction. Telling your friends to stop is most likely not going to work - they are teens, and their hormones are raging. You should just try and not feel bad about it, because it's going to happen. If your brother is watching adult shows in the middle of the night though, and he's not supposed to be, you might want to get your parents to help.


Hope I helped a bit.

[silentc0re]

Hello! Welcome to the forums!

First of all, you should understand, as you're going through puberty, you're going to think about these things. No matter who you are, it's gonna happen. Your parents thought about these things when they were growing up, if you go to church, everyone in you church has thought about these things when you went through puberty. Your mind is programmed by nature to start wanting to have children so you can further the human race, and that means you will be thinking about things like sex. It is going to be really hard to not ever think about these type of things when you're growing up. It may seem hard, and like you're going against your religion, but it's a natural reaction. Telling your friends to stop is most likely not going to work - they are teens, and their hormones are raging. You should just try and not feel bad about it, because it's going to happen. If your brother is watching adult shows in the middle of the night though, and he's not supposed to be, you might want to get your parents to help.


Hope I helped a bit.
Hes right its normal to eavesdrop on ur bro no harm done watch when you gonna be like 20-30 ur gonna look back and laugh dont worry.
:D

[sow_92]

Thx u guys!

[bigsack13]

sow 92, with ur dirty thoughts, you are religious as you say. that is kewl. but don't let it be of any influence to your sexual feelings. like religious people don't masturbate and other nonsense like that. just cut the crap allready, will ya? the whole no-sex-before-the-wedding thing is understandable to me. but religious cannot (or should not) control your sexual feelings. if you want to masturbate, do it. if your brother wants to, let him. do not tell ur parents or you will be a little traitor. no were in the bible or qoran or tenach are things like: you cannot masturbate\it is bad or stuff like that. it ain't in there!

[Kimiko]

Sex,Masturbation are not bad things,I mean if sex was banned,the world would end,your parents shud understand that as you're going thru puberty,these things happen and it is totally normal for a girl to have these feelings about porn,forbidden in your religion?pfft.How many people have actually never seen porn in their life?

[bigsack13]

pfft.How many people have actually never seen porn in their life?

african people. homeless iraqis, palestenians, poor asian people, homeless people in western world, poor tibetans and some people raised extremely religiously. but i bet all those ppor souls want to watch porn badly! :rolleyes:

[Camazotz]

african people. homeless iraqis, palestenians, poor asian people, homeless people in western world, poor tibetans and some people raised extremely religiously. but i bet all those ppor souls want to watch porn badly! :rolleyes:

I would watch your mouth, some people might find it offensive.

[bigsack13]

I would watch your mouth, some people might find it offensive.

Sorry, wasn't meant that way. I'm aware of other people taking offence out of it for it might have been degrading towards people with lower incomes and\or other races, countries and stuff. Won't happen again.

[Antares]

Okay, that is quite enough. Please get back on topic or this thread will be locked. Thanks.

[Close102]

ya it's normal as everyone else has said. do don't worry about it and just go with it. and if anyone like your parents have a problem with it just remind them that they thought about it when they were your age too.

[sara1220]

your fine! The thoughts are normal! Just as animals have instincts, so do humans. sexual thoughts are natural human instinct, especially during puberty! its all just a part of growing up... as for it being against your religion, dont be so worried about it... its not like ur gonna go to hell just for having sexual thoughts!

[notsure101]

If your catholic im right there with you, and if you think this stuff hurt ur relationship with god go to church and go to penance, the preist cant tell anyone wat u said even if ur a murderer he cant tell anybody go ahead dont be afraid what he think of u i did that in my school connfession i told him i masterbaited he didnt think anything of it

and with the things to get off your back, were always here :)