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gkrt
May 10th, 2008, 06:30 AM
The word catastrophe doesn't even begint to describe how this week is going. My nan has 4 kids. My mother, my uncle, Michael, my aunt, Brenda and another uncle, Alan. I personally think they're all losing it except Alan. This is whats happening.

About a week ago Brenda's daughter, Nicola, said my mum could take her son, Charlie, out. Then Brenda says, in a really snotty way, that my mum can't have him. My mum wonders why and argues with Brenda. Brenda goes home and tells Nicola everthing. Then Brenda calls my nan and says we wont be seeing Charlie for along time.

Thing with Nicola is that she uses Charlie as a weapon. If we say anything she doesn't like then she says we wont be able to see him. Her bloody mother is scared of her.

Anyway then my mum and dad are shopping. They see Brenda and Brenda and my dad are shouting really loud at each other. Now that is wierd because Brenda is usually a quiet person. Next my mum gets mad at my uncle Michael because ever since he got married he has not been seeing us. He hangs up on her and she goes home crying. (By the way this was only a couple of minutes ago).

Finally my Nan is saying she's going to move the other side of the country where my other Uncle, Alan lives. What the hell is gonig on?

Rutherford The Brave
May 10th, 2008, 10:17 AM
Your family just isn't getting along theres not much else to say. Something must have happened behind the scenes that you aren't aware of.

ScotsGirl
May 11th, 2008, 12:38 PM
That sounds like my family. Hardly anyone talks to each other, theres only a few people in the middle.
I guess its jsut one of those things. It may blow over, it may not. (Im sorry, I would love to sugar coat it but then I'd be a liar...)

What can you do to help the present situation? Sadly, as far as I know, nothing.
You can only learn from the way they are acting and try and make sure you do everything in your power to stop the same thing happening again for your kids.

Sorry I can't be much help, I just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone.
:-)
xxx

Hyper
May 11th, 2008, 01:31 PM
Thats their problem NOT your problem, you can't climb in other peoples relations, that wont do anything good.

The best thing you can do is stay away from the shit and make sure you remember not to do any of the things your family is doing right now.

gkrt
May 12th, 2008, 09:36 AM
Thanks for the advise. I'll try and do what you say.

jojo11282
March 17th, 2010, 07:06 PM
well to all of you thats such b.s (except the boy talking about the behind the scene)what is happening ur askin this to them or what but this is goin to affect everyone and that chalie person is reallly in a worse situation and i have had worse times and this is my advice talk to the sanest person u know ( like "uncle alan") all the time tell him about your troubles and talk it out remember he is older so he might be able to do something more one thing to your advantage with this guy and yah

Aspiringanonymous
March 17th, 2010, 09:37 PM
This thread is almost a year old. Please don't bump old threads, thanks!

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