I'm really confused.........

[Medical Kid]

uh Hi everyone, my names Matt, I'm 13, and I need answers, starting with.....

Ok, I'm really afraid! my older bro is 16 and hes just starting to hit puberty!, I fear I might be going down the same road! do siblings usually hit puberty at the same age?

Porn? I tried it before, it was kinda nice, but I felt really dirty about it. Is this normal?

This question is the one I'm most sensitive about...........Ok, when I move this summer, I wanna start dating but.......my dad is really insensitive about this and he could care less, and I think my mom would say I'm too young but alot of people at 13 date! help me?:(

[Sugaree]

I don't think that it's very common that siblings hit puberty at the same age. You could be developing later or earlier than your brother or could develope the same way.

Of course. Usually people will fell some type of guilt after. It's all noraml to happen. But just to make sure don't watch porn. That can give you wrong answers ;)

Well I must agree that 13 is too young to date. I mean if you want to go see a movie with your parents just ask them if you can bring a friend and then of course ask the girl out.

Hope that that's helped you out :)

[Medical Kid]

what do you mean "watch" porn? like videos specifically?

[silentc0re]

what do you mean "watch" porn? like videos specifically?

Its normal to feel guilty after you watch Porn but dont worry so im no telling you to watch porn but its easier to get to the orgasm point with it.

[Oblivion]

Ehem... Medical thats not really important and a little snoopy :P

Anyway, i agree with beagle on all his answers:) Also, your brothers not weird hes just starting a little late... And he might have gone through less apparent and more private things that you don't know about

[Antares]

Well you shouldn't fear going down the same road. Puberty happens to everyone and you just have to deal with it. Your brother may be able to help you with things like shaving and stuff but you will survive. Puberty doesn't kill! lol

Also, yes if you dated now you will be very normal. Some do not and some do start around this age but this is a very acceptable age to date!
Good luck and enjoy the wonderful world of puberty!

[Nihilus]

uh Hi everyone, my names Matt, I'm 13, and I need answers, starting with.....

Ok, I'm really afraid! my older bro is 16 and hes just starting to hit puberty!, I fear I might be going down the same road! do siblings usually hit puberty at the same age?

Porn? I tried it before, it was kinda nice, but I felt really dirty about it. Is this normal?

This question is the one I'm most sensitive about...........Ok, when I move this summer, I wanna start dating but.......my dad is really insensitive about this and he could care less, and I think my mom would say I'm too young but alot of people at 13 date! help me?:(

It starts at differant ages. I felt the samething about porn. You can start dating whenever you want but your mom may just be trying to protect you.

[Medical Kid]

You misunderstand! I don't FEAR puberty, what I'm afraid of is that I wont hit it until I'm his age, I very much want puberty to take its course, well it sort of has, but only stuff I notice, like some pubic hairs, and a little acne, but I havent grown an inch......

[Oblivion]

Your 13 :) Theres nothing wrong with you if you have started puberty :) there wouldn't be anything wrong with you if you hadn't yet started... YOUR BRO IS NORMAL, if you don't go into puberty until 16... Then so be it its not like your hurt or weird :) Don't worry your fine

[Medical Kid]

say thanks, its weird, Ive only been here for not even half a day, I feel better already, thanks guys!

[Antares]

You misunderstand! I don't FEAR puberty, what I'm afraid of is that I wont hit it until I'm his age, I very much want puberty to take its course, well it sort of has, but only stuff I notice, like some pubic hairs, and a little acne, but I havent grown an inch......

Oh, I am sorry. I understand. Well I think he may have gone through puberty farther than you know. Unless you have seen him naked you really can't know how long he has been going through puberty. But if you have pubes then you have already started and you are developing normally. So you are normal. Don't worry.

[The Pretender]

Everyone develops at different ages and how can you tell your going to be the same your only 13.

It's likely that you will feel guilty after watching porn most people do.

Never mind about what your mum says, if you think your ready to start seeing people then so be it.

[myskias]

say thanks, its weird, Ive only been here for not even half a day, I feel better already, thanks guys!

thats exactly how i felt when i joined haha, then once most of my problems were solved, i went off to help others with theirs :]