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[insideout]

hi im new to this whole online asking for help thing, but i cant really find anybody in my everyday life to relate to about this.

i happen to be confined to a wheelchair. im 18 and have never had a girlfriend, or relationship of that kind (kind of pathetic huh?) as a guy in this position with no experience whatsoever,i am looking for advice. i'll actually be graduating in like a month so i figured it will be even harder to meet someone after that. anything you guys could suggest would be appreciated. thanks.

[Gumleaf]

i'm sorry that you are confined to a w/chair, but i have to say that i admire people like you who battle on in life with a smile on your face while the rest of us complain and whinge about trivial stuff, not knowing how good we really have it.

anyways, the best way to meet people is to become part of different social groups and stuff like that. the wider your social network, the better your chances of finding someone you'll like and someone who will like you back. i realise given your circumstance it may be a little more difficult for you, but don't be discouraged by this. oh, and you're not pathetic, always remember that!

[mr.sexy_bomb]

um join groups and met people

[Oblivion]

um join groups and met people

That wasn't very helpful ;)

Try talking to whoever you want to ask out, or go out with friends and bring some girls... Kind of get to know them, be friendly, and be yourself :) And i agree, after you graduate it will probably be harder... So maybe find a girl you really like, be friendly, maybe ask her out... And be yourself :)