being honest

[Gumleaf]

i'm in a tricky situation. my girlfriend and i are different. i'm rather conservative and she is much more out there. anyways, today she said to me she wants to get her nose and belly button peirced. she asked me if i was ok with that, but i changed the subject and didn't answer the question. anyways, i'm torn because i don't think she should get the piercings and i'm not really "ok with it", but on the other hand its her body and she should do what she wants. i'm not sure if by telling her what i think would be a good move or not. what do you think?

[BeautifulSilence]

i don't think she should get the piercings and i'm not really "ok with it", but on the other hand its her body and she should do what she wants

Say that. If she asked for your opinion, then she wants to know what you think. Just tell her that in your honest opinion, you aren't exactly ok with it, but if it is what she really wants she should go for it, it's truly up to her to decide what she's gonna do.

There's gonna less of a problem if you tell her your REAL thoughts now, than if you pretend you're ok with it and she realises after she's already had it done.

Good luck :)

[Rutherford The Brave]

Exactly but try not to make a big deal about it, I'm actually an opposite to you because I love nose peircings not exactly belly button peircings but then again my girl cant wear one.