i have this friend

[confused99]

ok i have this friend who i think he might be gay. i have nothing against gay/ bi ppl and i will still be his friends if he comes out. the thing is tht he likes to put his hand on my chest,upper leg, and stomach. when he does it i feel awkward. how do i tell him to stop w/o getting him all pissed cause he is VRY emotional.

[Palm kid]

well you should tell him its wierd for you. also if he is really bothering u just tell him to go away

[Seth48]

Just tell Him "Hey Man this makes me uncomfortable When you do this i would would like you to please stop... No offense I just don't like that"

When he stops say somthing like "thanks man" I suggest man or dude because that makes it more personal between guys.

Thats what i think

hope this helps :D

[dogman]

just brush him off and say, "mate stop it" and if it keeps happening, you might have to get a bit harder, but remember to put your feelings above his, if it is creeping you out, stop it and he will have to deal with it

[Techno Monster]

Just Say "not Now"

[Requin]

Just tell him it makes you uncomfortable, don't shout it out to everyone just tell him quietly.
BTW you sure he's not just fucking about?

[mike24]

if u dont like it
just say it
that's a little weird
unless u like it and want to try
then u should just say that it doesnt feel right

[The Batman]

Just ask him to move his hands or give him one of those bad looks when he does it.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

well i am bi and i think the best way would b um hey dude um i dont enjoy this r we kool

[Kietkarbad]

"fuck off"

[blank_07]

maybe he's just confused.
keep the fact that you think he's gay to yourself.
don't be mean.
ask him POLITELY not to touch you.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

may b he likes and is flirthing with u

[LifeIsMyJoke]

Just try and tell him politely man that you don't feel comfortable and that while you respect his curiosity, that it doesn't feel right doing it to you.

[lxl]

wouldn't hurt to tell him how you feel

[Sugaree]

I agree with lxl. But make sure that it isn't hurtful to him. Just tell him "I'm not very comfortable with you touching me there. I don't mind if you do, but please don't."

[Mr. Smithers]

Just try not to put him down, Just say, "Can you please stop dude, I know you have "thoughts", but I'm only saying this because were friends."

[notsure101]

just say can u pls stop dude, but still be friends with himm

[ssgliberty]

i`m bi and if he iis bi\gay (proboly) just say i dont want to ruin a friendship but please dont tuch me there it makes me fell incommfterbile and say if you are gay or bi i accept that but please stop

[Nihilus]

Say," please stop doing that." If what your friend does make you uncomfortable, tell him to stop.