this girl i like wont talk to me

[confused99]

there is this girl i like and she wont talk to me. she has a right too cause back when i was going out w/ this girl, my gf thought we where flirting and got pissed so i stop talking to this girl. after my gf dumped me, me and this girl became close for a week and then all of a sudden she suddenly stoped talking to me. i later found out tht she liked me when i stoped talking to her. ppl say i shouldnt like her cause she treats me like shit, but i did the same thing to her. i also think she is really pretty and i had soo much fun talking to her.'

wat should i do?

[Gumleaf]

sounds like things are pretty complicated between the two of you already. i would suggest just leaving it. there will be other girls and it will be much eaiser and feel more comfortable for you if both of you are talking and happy with eachother to start with.

[Coolkid16]

ayyy where in broward u live?

[Rutherford The Brave]

ayyy where in broward u live?

That doesnt answer his question. You should approach her because if she isn't talking to you I don't think she is going to approach you. Maybe get to know her whil talking to her but do not force her to talk.

[confused99]

That doesnt answer his question. You should approach her because if she isn't talking to you I don't think she is going to approach you. Maybe get to know her whil talking to her but do not force her to talk.

well i did approach her like right when she started to stop talking to me. she was sick for a week and i sent her a text and i was like "hey how u feeling"
and i nvr got a reply. do u think i should try again now cause it has been a couple months?

[Nihilus]

you should try talking and ask why she hasn't talked

[blank_07]

get over her.
maybe she thinks you're acting wierd.
move on.

[curiousteen]

you should try talking and ask why she hasn't talked

thats wut u should. this help out alot and figure out the problem and yall might start talking to each other again.

[LifeIsMyJoke]

get over her.
maybe she thinks you're acting wierd.
move on.

Its not always that easy, as Im sure alot of people have found out the hard way, myself included.

If she won't talk to you, generally one of two things have happened:

1) She is nervous about talking to you, as she finds you attractive, and this new found lust has embodied her with a new shyness previously non existent in the old friendship mode.

2) She is moving on with life, likes someone else, tired of your company (I know it sounds harsh man, but these things happen in relationships).

I hope its the first one for you man! Best of luck, its good to try and notice her body language too - if she keeps stealing glances at you, and whispering to friends while looking at you , its more likely to be number (1).

If she gives you the cold shoulder, has her back to you, greets any conversation unenthusiastically, with just a "hi" back, then its most likely number (2).

Hope this helps!!

[blank_07]

trust me.
he should move on.
trust me.

[Camazotz]

trust me.
he should move on.
trust me.

So just because you said so, he should automatically listen to you? He has a right to choose anyones opinion, most of all his own. Alright, well seeing the way you treated her, I probably wouldnt talk to you either. Appoligize to her and ask for forgiveness. Ask if she wants to see a movie or something. Slowly get into a friendship before asking her out.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

time is the answer ^0^

[cswub90]

trust me.
he should move on.
trust me.

u are acting like u are his mind. the choice of how he wants to handle this is up to him not u. u dont know situation so u should not make a comment like tht.

anyways, i think the key is to just start small talk in class or watevr and see how it goes

good luck :D

[blank_07]

i DO know the situation because i AM the former girlfriend.
so yeah.
(: