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dogman
May 6th, 2008, 04:38 AM
Ok, i have never had a girlfriend before, im 16, and, to cut a long story short, we have known of each other for 4 years, and she liked me when i was in yr 6, now in yr 10, i found out she liked me, but when she confronted me about it, i told her i didnt know her well enough to go out.

Now, we have been talking, and we have agreed to go out. We have been talking pivately, so no one else about it, and when we were talking, it got onto the subject of ex boy/girlfriends, and i have never had a girlfriend before, and i also said i had never had a kiss before, which i havent. She then said would i like her to be my first. I said yer, but i mean, is this right, to almost pre arrange the kiss. SHe has only ever kissed one toher guy, and she said she would like to kiss me, but like, how do we initate it, should we do it at the start, and get it over with, or should we wait until the end, when we are comfortable?? Also, this might sound stupid, but how do you kiss, for a first kiss, what is the best way to do it??

Gumleaf
May 6th, 2008, 05:00 AM
the mystery of the first kiss! i remember my first ever kiss, it was with my ex girlfriend, jessica. we had talked a bit about kissing before, but when the time came, it was unexpected. it just felt right at the time, she moved in and kissed me. it was a very special moment and something i won't forget. so what i'm saying to you is not to worry about your first kiss, when the time is right it will happen. i didn't know what to do, but when the time came, it all fell into place. i'm sure it will be the same for you.

Rutherford The Brave
May 6th, 2008, 06:12 AM
It should come natural to you but if you like her it should be ok! Don't worry about how you kiss really its just the feeling you put into it.

alicia
May 6th, 2008, 03:25 PM
You can't plan a kiss, it's just the heat of the moment kinda of thing.
Just a little peck at first, don't start making out with her.
It will come naturally and you'll know when the time is right :)

dogman
May 7th, 2008, 03:46 AM
ok thank you everyone that has helped, i feel better now

dogman
May 9th, 2008, 06:26 AM
tell me, does anyone who where is should take her, for a first date?

Gumleaf
May 9th, 2008, 07:50 AM
tell me, does anyone who where is should take her, for a first date?


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