Just Curious?

[Justwondering]

Well to start off I am a 15 yr old Male. Believe I am hetro (Since I have had my fair share of girlfriends), But am wondering now since I am really attracted to a friend of mine. I have been attracted for as long as I can remember. Tonight we had balloons so he thought he should put some water in them, By the end of the night he had one in his pants (Because he thought I was going to pay him if he popped it), So he popped it (I also pulled the "The balloon isnt there let me feel, Really enjoyed that). After walking around my house for 30 minutes in his boxers waiting for his pants to dry I was even more attracted to him since his penis is only a thin layer of cloth away. I can never picture us "Together" because that is just wierd, but have always been curious of what his penis looked like, and What jacking him off or jacking off with him feels like.

So my question is out of all of that is... Is it just puberty and me just wondering what others look like compared to my own, Or is it just my hormones since I am in the middle or almost done puberty. Or am I not 100% Hetro

[theOperaGhost]

I think you are just curious. You are quite likely not gay.

[hot_stud92]

ur just curious..is normal..dun sweat it :-)

[Justwondering]

I think you are just curious. You are quite likely not gay.

ur just curious..is normal..dun sweat it :-)

Thank you lol, Im just curious because I am always attracted to females, and he's like the only male I've ever been attracted to, But like you guys said, he is my friend and Im just curious

[Gumleaf]

boys puberty - teen sexuality

i think that a combination of raging hormones and curiosity is getting you here. just this alone wouldn't make you gay. unless you become emotionally attracted to him, then you have nothing to worry about.

[NextToNormal]

i think you are just curious...almost everyone is at some or another. dont worry about it. i highly doubt that you are gay

[Justwondering]

i think you are just curious...almost everyone is at some or another. dont worry about it. i highly doubt that you are gay

Ty too everyone that has contributed, and the advice has helped so far. I was now wondering if its wrong that I want to masturbate with him/ or do it for him.

[Oblivion]

No its fine to experiment :) Part of curiosity

[Justwondering]

No its fine to experiment :) Part of curiosity

Asking on to that, How would I approach the situation, And what are some pros/cons?

[Mzor203]

No its fine to experiment :) Part of curiosity

It isn't always necessarily fine to experiment unless both people are really ready for it...

Asking on to that, How would I approach the situation, And what are some pros/cons?

Remember that when you're approaching something like this, you have got to make sure he is okay with it too. So start off tentatively with the subject of masturbation, maybe if he doesn't get disgusted ask him if he's tried it with someone else before, work your way up, and if he gives any sign of being uncomfortable, stop, because doing things such as this can potentially harm a relationship if things become really awkward.

[Oblivion]

i think there are some threads about this but-
Pro: You get the experience, you might strengthen your friendship
Con: You might weaken your friendship, or obliterate it

You might ask him about masturbating then ask if you can try it on him

Mainly listen to Mzor hes got his head on right and ya, MZ (like the nickname? :P) i meant you both have to be ready when i said its fine :P

[Justwondering]

No its fine to experiment :) Part of curiosity

i think there are some threads about this but-
Pro: You get the experience, you might strengthen your friendship
Con: You might weaken your friendship, or obliterate it

You might ask him about masturbating then ask if you can try it on him

Mainly listen to Mzor hes got his head on right and ya, MZ (like the nickname? :P) i meant you both have to be ready when i said its fine :P

Thanks for the advice xD. another problem his he is the type to not even talk about puberty (Like i tried to talk about my masturbation, like just bringing it up, and he would just say cool, or ok kid... or I dont care kid...) So I think asking him would look dumb, or he would be really awkward too, or he just would say no, But I dont know if its a risk I wanna take or not.

[Oblivion]

Ya... He doesn't sound very interested in experimenting, so best not ask. Maybe ask another friend? Talk about it slowly though- Don't just go up and ask, ease into it

[Justwondering]

Ya... He doesn't sound very interested in experimenting, so best not ask. Maybe ask another friend? Talk about it slowly though- Don't just go up and ask, ease into it

Lol this is a nice little chat :P, but he is the only friend I would really feel comfortable doing stuff with, because he is the only acception (I dont find other males attractive). There are a few things to say and dont know how to put them into paragraphs so will just randomly blurt stuff out lol. He is the only male I am attracted too, Have known him for 5 years (Prolly where my curiousity comes from) and I would only tell him I am uncut (Like I couldnt tell someone else I am uncut). On the other hand, He does joke around about being gay, like licking his lips at me, Rubbing my foot with his foot while we are chilling at the dinner table with my parents, Rising his eyebrows while Im looking at him, Showing off his boxers, Rubbing areas of himself as a joke. Lol, I find that his actions are very confusing and hard to "Decode" into what he really wants to say to me.

[dogman]

well, maybe you should jokingly bring up the subject, and if he doesnt object, go from there, if he does object, laugh it off as a joke

[Requin]

On the other hand, He does joke around about being gay, like licking his lips at me, Rubbing my foot with his foot while we are chilling at the dinner table with my parents, Rising his eyebrows while Im looking at him, Showing off his boxers, Rubbing areas of himself as a joke. Lol, I find that his actions are very confusing and hard to "Decode" into what he really wants to say to me.

That's what some of my friends do. It's just what boys do our age.
However, like dogman said jokingly bring the experiment subject up, he sounds like the horny type so...you never know...be careful though, Read some of the other experimenting posts before you leap towards it.