I have no clue what to do

[billwill]

so i met a girl i really liked like 4 months ago. i used to talk to her on aim but eventually she kept hinting our conversations were boring. now its been like 2 months i havent talked to her. what can i do to start a converstion and what kind of things should i talk about so she doesnt say i'm boring? btw she knows i like her but i dont think she likes me.

[Gumleaf]

well it might seem lame but something i used to do was write down some things that i would talk about because i'm not the most exciting person either. if you can find out things that she is interested in and talk about those things, then that could help too.

[ScotsGirl]

How do you know if she likes you or not?

I agree with Stephen though, talking about something that interests her is definitely something that may help.

Dont put so much pressure on yourself to have an "exciting" conversation. I am a big believer in asking questions. If you want to know something about her ask her, or even better, get her to tell you something off the top of her head, the first thing she thinks of if you like, it can be about her, about her family, about her friends, etc etc.

Good luck! :-)
xxx

[ammber]

im a girl so i know what they like tell her that she is beutiful and talk only about her not you

[rsc4life]

Well. as Gumleaf said, keep some sort of makeshift list of conversation topics handy. Try to become friends again. That always gives a relationship a good starting point.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

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