View Full Version : What captures your attention? - for guys and girls
alicia
May 3rd, 2008, 10:12 PM
What is the first thing you notice about a girl or a guy that gets you want to talk to him or her ?
Eyes, smile, hair, clothes, lips, what ?
I'm interested to know :)
japanman
May 3rd, 2008, 10:14 PM
Eyes the eyes thats what gets me to notice girls infact thats why i still have a crush on Jackie.
Did you know some say eyes are the window to the soul.
Maverick
May 3rd, 2008, 10:16 PM
Just overall having a friendly, inviting looking appearance. Its nothing really specific but when a girl looks friendly I'm more apt to talk to her.
george
May 3rd, 2008, 10:54 PM
Like Jacob said, the eyes. You can tell everything from someones eyes :)
dogman
May 4th, 2008, 04:56 AM
The eyes, then the body posture
Gumleaf
May 4th, 2008, 05:17 AM
i fall for hair, eyes and smile. if i find those things on a girl i like, i melt!
japanman
May 4th, 2008, 06:18 AM
Thats the samething that happenes to me when i see girl with beautiful eyes lol.
alicia
May 4th, 2008, 01:41 PM
Usually smile and eyes get my attention :).
The Pretender
May 4th, 2008, 01:43 PM
Like Maverick said, If a girl looks friendly and has welcoming body language that gets my attention.
Underground_Network
May 4th, 2008, 01:59 PM
A girl's eyes and her smile can get my attention. But mysteriousness [is that even a word?] seems to catch my eye. I like girls who seem to be hiding something. It's weird I guess. But like Ant said, if a girl has an inviting appearance [she's just overall nice, she's smiling, there's a sparkle in her eye, and you just have this urge to go up to her] I'll probably want to talk to her [though knowing myself I probably wouldn't talk to her]. The girl also has to look as if she cares about how she looks [but doesn't necessarily care how other people perceive it]. I.e. she's hygienic, she looks like she takes proper care of herself, she's not dirty [literally], etc. A girl with her hair all messed up, who smells weird, and never smiles, IS going to get my attention, but not in a good way.
curiousteen
May 4th, 2008, 02:56 PM
i go for the eyes, smile, and hair because those are the major features in a girl u can mainly find
Maverick
May 4th, 2008, 02:59 PM
I don't understand why people put so much emphasis on the eyes. Its not something I've paid attention to but meh.
Unknown
May 5th, 2008, 06:01 AM
I'll look at their overall look,or if he/she dresses peculiarly,their clothes/hair.
Lifesreject
May 5th, 2008, 10:48 AM
Its eyes every time for my because when you talk to someone you look at there eyes. Well i do. Isn't there something to do with a triangle as well? Left eye right eye then lips or something
ScotsGirl
May 5th, 2008, 12:46 PM
I think ...people's reactions. :-)
Sounds kind of weird.
But I tend to watch the way people react in situations, like someone else mentioned their body language is important, but not only that.
The way they hold themselves, their confidence.
I dont know if Ive explained that clearly, but an example would be something like...
If someone drops something like a pile of papers, they can react to dropping it in loads of ways. They can panic and try and shuffle everything together, they can laugh, they can ask if anyone will help them pick it all up, they can roll their eyes as if its not the first kind of thing like it that has happened today, they can...see what I mean?
I dont know if anyone has ever stopped and thought about how much the way they are acting and reacting to things reveals about them.
So yeah, if someone reacts in a way that I think makes them seem like someone I want to talk to, then generally, I will go and talk to them :-)
xxx
mden
May 5th, 2008, 10:40 PM
I'm not picky with what the girl looks like but if I had to choose her teeth. I like white, striaght teeth.
But other than that I look at her personality.
Pioneer92
May 7th, 2008, 08:52 AM
face and hair for me :)
khaos14
May 7th, 2008, 06:35 PM
I really like really small girls (under five foot) Of cousre the smile does it too.
Requin
May 8th, 2008, 10:43 AM
Their smile or body first, then i progress to their personality. If they are friendly or not, and not being flirty with everyone. lol
Nihilus
May 8th, 2008, 07:04 PM
Eyes and personality
Justwondering
May 8th, 2008, 09:49 PM
Eyes, Friends, And the overall "Attitude" around the group.
Tubbsyclone
December 13th, 2008, 09:37 PM
If they have a cut face and smaller to medium semi firm boobs
Archer600
December 14th, 2008, 01:09 AM
First I notice a girls face and her smile and if I like that I can't Keep my eyes off her
new_kid_on_the_block
December 14th, 2008, 06:51 PM
Just overall having a friendly, inviting looking appearance. Its nothing really specific but when a girl looks friendly I'm more apt to talk to her.
"Maverick"
Yeah + not too overweight or too thin
Zephyr
December 14th, 2008, 08:07 PM
Please don't bump old threads
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