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asdfghj
May 3rd, 2008, 05:11 PM
i hav hardli ani confidents around boys and i feel like nobody will ever fancy me. most of my friends hav boyfriends and it seems like nobodys interested in me. im 15 and although im not sayin i want/need sex now i worry that no boy will ever wanna have sex wiv me. please help me out!!!

thanks
adele xx

Mzor203
May 3rd, 2008, 05:14 PM
A lot of the time I feel the same way, I feel like no one will ever want to date me, mainly because I am different in a lot of ways and quite short. Remember that there will always be someone out there who is for you, and the more friends you make the more chance of something happening. Be friendly and be yourself and you will get far in life.

ScotsGirl
May 5th, 2008, 01:06 PM
Be friendly and be yourself and you will get far in life.

Good advice! :-)

Stop worrying about what other people want, and worry about what you want. (I know, a lot easier said than done). Its not an overnight process, but slowly, you can learn to love yourself!

As for not having confidence, confidence is something that comes from within.
Be someone that you like :-) And the confidence will grow from that.

xxx

alicia
May 5th, 2008, 01:16 PM
A lot of people feel this way actually, and I used to aswell.
Put yourself out there, don't change who you are just try to build up some confidence.
Showing a boy that you have confidence will get his attention.
If you find a boy that you think is interesting, try talking to him.
I'm not a guy but I'm sure most boys are shy talking to girls too, so maybe if you went up to him first, it'll show that you do have confidence.


It takes a lot of nerve, but slowly work your way up :)
Like the posts before said, be friendly and be yourself and i'm sure you'll find someone :)