What should i do

[missouriteen]

My gf just told me that she is going to have a baby. I was wondering if andy body can tell me how to tell my parents and hers. And if any body has had this befor can you tell me what it is like?

Thanks

[Rutherford The Brave]

This ones right up my alley. Well, My child is due in 6 months and well Im 15 it was alot of screaming but you should tell your own parent and she should tell hers. Just be ready to for a war cause well, it wasn't easy taking a batering for the both of us. It was a painful time really, My stepmother said she was going to beat me I got put in a jail until a resolution was solved and now Im going to be a father and be married. Thats my story so um be ready...

[Gumleaf]

well i haven't been in this situation, but this is what i would do. with each set of parents you need to both be there and tell them together. i'm sure it won't be easy and might result in anger and suprise from your parents, but if they are good parents, when the dust settles they will be able to help you both best in what you are going to face in the future and help you both prepare for whats to come. now this won't be easy and you will quite likely experience a battering from both parents, but its important to have their support so they can help you make the right decisions in the days/weeks/months ahead. hope this helps and good luck with everything mate.

[alicia]

I haven't been in this situation myseld but a close friend has.
You need to tell someone, an adult, parent, teacher, relative, whatever.
If you think a parent might freak out then you may want to turn to another trusting adult, then soon enough tell your parents.
Decide with your girlfriend what your going to do with this baby, you can:
- Have the baby and raise it
- Have the baby and put it up for adoption
- Have an abortion.

Some people aren't always financially and emotionally ready for a child, especially since your still young :S . Talk to your girlfriend about it, but expect your parents to be disappointed. I don't think it is something they expected so soon.

[PubertyInfoWanted]

i havent had this situation but if you dont want things to end up for the worst just tell your parents if you love this girl they'll understand but that doesnt mean they wont be mad

[Rutherford The Brave]

Well..... Um here's the big picture, its statutory rape. Thats if you are under 16 then you have to worry, but the whole I love her/him doesnt blow over well...

[missouriteen]

Thanks guys me and my GF told are parents yesterday and my parents wernt all that mad but hers where. Lets just say it is a good thing i have nice parents because she is living with us now. but thanks guys

[iJack]

Thats good that your parents understood, did her parents kick her out?

[missouriteen]

yes that is why she is living with me and my parents

[Rutherford The Brave]

Yeah Im in the same predicament except Im marrying my girlfriend.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

so we all have a happy ending >.<