i don't know

[velocity_girl]

i'm not sure what's wrong with me, or if there is anything wrong with me, but i told my friend some things about my eating habits and she said it sounded like i was anorexic because i try to eat as little as possible, and have about 1/2 dinner , or try and skip it altogether and no lunch or breakfast i'm really fat but my friends keep lying i'm 13 and quite tall and about 8 1/2 stone and i feel really jealous of all the thin women on television because they look amazing and you can see their figures and they aren't just..blubbery. my friends think i'm thin cos you can see my ribs but i'm not and i measure my waist hips stomach thighs arms every week and in the past 2 months i;ve only lost an inch from my stomach and i've tried throwing up but i fainted cos i hadnt eaten in a week and i threw up twice a few months ago cos i'd gained 7 pounds and i dont know what to do and does anyone have any good ways to lose weight cos i feel so shit about how i look at the moment. cos, like, all other girls i know look so toned and thin, and i'm just chubby and blubbery please help someone or iff u have purging techniques or anything or know what i am, cos i'm getting obsessed with my weight and it might sound like a stupid question, but can you be a chubby anorexic. cos when i asked my friend she said yes but you wouldnt stay like it. my shape is making me feel rubbish i also suffer from depression and ocd.

anyway

help? :(

[Mzor203]

First of all, do you know how much 8 1/2 stone is in pounds, because I have no idea, so this makes it hard.

I'm not sure if you really are fat, but I'm sure it can't be that much if your friends say it isn't. It sounds to me like your OCD could be making you obsess about your weight, and I suggest you stop worrying about it too much and stop making yourself sick. You should talk to your gym teacher about good exercise plans that will help you lose weight, I am sure he will help. Once I know exactly how much you weigh I'll be able to help you a bit more.

[myskias]

well from the looks of it, you can see ur ribs thats not good ur not fat at all from what i heard, but also im a guy and really if theyre a little chubby it doesnt matter! how come want to be skinny and thin? to impress ur friends? theres really no reason, just eat healthy and eat three meals a day and work out. if u do all of that u wont get fat, u wont be too skinny, you will be the perfect size.

[velocity_girl]

it's 119 pounds

[Mzor203]

I don't know the everything such as your exact height, thugh you say you're quite tall. Anyways, you have a perfectly healthy weight! Congratulatons! You still can do some stuff to improve, but as I said before, you should just do some running or jogging each day, and see your gym teacher about some exercise programs.

All you have to do is just not worry so much. Just eat three healthy meals a day, and be active, and you will be perfectly fine!

[ktkurbst0mp]

If you're tall, 119 is actually very underweight.

I'm 5'8 and my ideal weight is around 140 pounds.

[BeautifulSilence]

You should think yourself lucky being only 8 and 1/2 stone as well as tall. When I was 12 I weighed 12 and a half stone, and I was quite short at the time. Now I weigh 10 and 1/2 (and I'm 5ft11), and I'm a lil' chubby. Yes I would like to be toned, but I wouldn't like to be able to see my ribs, as I find that to be too skinny.

If you're tall, you'll look slimmer then someone who weighs the same but is shorter. I think that being obsessed with your weight, and your eating habits is very unhealthy. You might like to know that healthy eating is more likely to keep the perfect weight, when compared to eating very little. Also, if you're underweight (which you seem to be) and you don't eat properly, your body will feed from your muscle, which is, well VERY harmful to you.