mom fueling problems

[ShatteredWings]

its like she WANTS me to be too small.

"You don't exersize enough! Your going to the gym today" (said when i say i'm sick -- and clearly over-congested. also has stomach ache -- and was exersizing TWO freakin days ago)
anyone know the trasnlation for that
"your a fat bitch and need to stop eating and exersize like an olympic swimmer" is what is implyd there

why would she do this to me?:( THE FDA IS INSANE IF THEY THINK SOMEONE 5'8 SHOULD WEIGH 110lb. FUCKIN INSANE! i donwanna be that way..why


i...i almost want to go back..just to please her...she won't stop me as long as i eat a minimal dinner (setting an example for brothers mainly), and...i'm so scared...
& whats odd is i dont even want to hurt myself any other way....i just want everyone else to be happpy


earlier today, since i had to go to that class, i ran into a ffriend, and she kinda saw i wasn't good..so i told her..i told her that last summer i lost alot of weight(she kinda new) and that how i'm sick today, and how like, she want me to be this way...

please please help mee

[Triple7]

How much exercise do you normally get from your own workouts or everyday activities, like walking? Exercise is good, but overdoing it or being underweight is not.

Try this BMI calculator: http://www.nytimes.com/ref/health/bmi.html
The page has some good explanations for it also.

You should also have a balanced diet. Physical activity isn't the only factor in your health.

[Musicluv2]

maybe what she's telling you is to get up and do something resourceful? shrug. do you normally stay home and lounge around?

[ShatteredWings]

...obviously not....i walk almosst everywhere, and usually get like 1/2hr exersize a day AT LEAST...if iwas heavy, it woul;d be understandable, but ...gosh *very very frrustrated*