Do I got a chance?

[tmr263]

Ok there is this girl who i like a whole lot. I talk to her everyday in school, during my fourth bell, I walk her to her car every day, I notice her glancing at me everyonce in a while, and today i built up the nerve to ask her if she wanted to go to the movies with me. She said she was gonna have alot to do this weekend, and that we could probably go catch a movie next weekend. I don't know if she has a bf or not, i should know that by tommorrow, but i know she has alot of guy friends, and she's so pretty, i don't know how she couldn't have a bf, so i'm pretty worried about that. Anyways, I just want some advice on things i can do to see if she likes me, or things i could do to be less shy when it comes to girls.

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

well heres how i think of it. if she really wanted to go to the movies with you she would make time, no matter how busy her weekend supposedly was. see my drift?

[tmr263]

Ahhh what i feared, but she does have a full time job, on top of school, so i dunno, and she said she wanted to go with me next week, i'm gonna wait and see if she has a bf first, lol

[TheWizard]

Lucky :)

[tmr263]

I think I done fucked up, I e-mailed her last night and asked her if she had a bf, but she probably hasn't seen it yet cause she hardly ever gets online. Ohhhh well, if she don't have a bf I geuss I can hope she likes me a little bit and when I ask her out maybe she'll say yeah. Or on the other hand she could think i'm obbsessed and avoid me, gah! lol. Atleast I get to go to the movies with her, whether we going as friends or bf and gf, i still think we only going as friends though :roll: Maybe she'll decide she wants to go out with me cuase most girls like my personality.

[Elokyn]

dude....tip 1...lil late...don't ask girls anything personal over the internet..just don't...I'm gonna have to disagree a little with matt cus sometimes you're schedule really doesn't allow for socialization unless it's planned in advance. I would hope if she had a bf she would have told you flat no.....only out of respect for him..but you never know..that's just my view on things. Good luck, whatever happens, keep us updated.

[tmr263]

Crap i knew i shouldn't have asked her if she had a bf through the e-mail, well i'm waiting for her response on that, thx for the advice i'm getting more confedence in the matter.

[tmr263]

No response I think she's igoring me, I don't want another girl, I want her! Gah, I get to attached to people to fast. Oh well all is not lost, but I want to ask her out in person this week sometime, then i'll know if i don't have a chance or not.

[tmr263]

Well still no word from her, gah I don't know what I did wrong I thought we was getting along good. Anyways, I got ahold of some one who knows her they said they don't know if she has a bf or not, but the warned me not ot go out with her because she hangs in the wrong crowed, and has "issues" but she is so nice from what I can tell, so i don't know what i'm gonna do.

[tmr263]

I finally asked her, and she said no :roll: but she is single, and she said no because she just broke up with her bf a week ago and she's still really sad about that. Then she told me that she really wants to go to the movies with me though, and get to know be better. So I might still stand a chance, gosh asking girls out is so much easier then i thought, hard to believe i've done it before, lol.

[ScotsGirl]

I hope everything goes well for you :D
I think if she has just got out of a relationship, you just have take your time and dont rush things with her :D

gosh asking girls out is so much easier then i thought, hard to believe i've done it before, lol.

Yeah! we dont bite :biggrin2: ...too hard :tongue: hehehe

xxx

[tmr263]

Yes, well actually this is kind of bad. She got a speeding ticket and needs some one to driver her to work. She picked me, her work is like right beside of my house so it's great. She said she's gonna give me 20$ a week to do it, but I told her I don't want any money, but she keeps insisting, gah!