Mutilating my penis.

[Gender-Unknown]

Lately i have been fantasising about doing something drastic to my penis like to circumcise myself, penectomy, castration and other things.

Any1 else thought about this or am i just weird??

[Mzor203]

This is not something I normally say, but yes, you are a bit weird. You should never do something of that sort, as it can seriously damage your penis, and circumcizion should only be done by a doctor. I would suggest you try to stop thinking these thoughts, as they could lead you to a very bad situation.

[Dolphus Raymond]

There are sexual fetishes and compulsions involving self-mutilation. Are you considering it, fantasizing it, or just thinking about it? Those are three very different situations.

If you're considering it and having uncontrollable urges, you need to get help immediately. Full stop. You don't need to be specific about it, but you need to tell someone, "I'm having urges to hurt myself." You don't have to say exactly what it is. You just need get help for it.

If you are fantasizing, it's a paraphilia. Essentially, that means a sexual desire considered culturally abnormal. Paraphilias are not dangerous if you can control them and have no real desire to act on them. They should generally be kept private for obvious reasons, unless you want to seek help. If they start to become obsessive/uncontrollable thoughts, you need to seek help (see the first situation).

If you are just thinking about it, as in it enters your mind but seems unappealing, it's normal to have occasional "inappropriate" thoughts about violence. As long as they do not become attractive, annoying or especially obsessive, they aren't a problem.

[Sugaree]

I would say this first off that you do NOT try to circumsize yourself! You can end up doing major damage.

These are all just fetishes and htey are normal to have

[notsure101]

There are sexual fetishes and compulsions involving self-mutilation. Are you considering it, fantasizing it, or just thinking about it? Those are three very different situations.

If you're considering it and having uncontrollable urges, you need to get help immediately. Full stop. You don't need to be specific about it, but you need to tell someone, "I'm having urges to hurt myself." You don't have to say exactly what it is. You just need get help for it.

If you are fantasizing, it's a paraphilia. Essentially, that means a sexual desire considered culturally abnormal. Paraphilias are not dangerous if you can control them and have no real desire to act on them. They should generally be kept private for obvious reasons, unless you want to seek help. If they start to become obsessive/uncontrollable thoughts, you need to seek help (see the first situation).



If you are just thinking about it, as in it enters your mind but seems unappealing, it's normal to have occasional "inappropriate" thoughts about violence. As long as they do not become attractive, annoying or especially obsessive, they aren't a problem.

yeah i dont consider tat normal mabey you should get some help IF YOU WANT we are not forcing u

[Gender-Unknown]

i would never do these things as drastic as those and i am just fantasizing about them but i have been doing other things like trying to purposely bend it and extend foreskin by pulling as i love it when i goes numb.

also i have interested in body modification but that won't happen.

i won't do those things but i have been doing minor " improvements "

[Dolphus Raymond]

As long as you're not seriously considering doing it, there's no harm.

I do hope these "minor improvements" aren't unsafe...

[Requin]

Yeah seriously this is a bit wierd, please don't do anything, not even these "minor improvements" that you've said you've done. It'll pass so please STOP. LOL

[MoveAlong]

There are sexual fetishes and compulsions involving self-mutilation. Are you considering it, fantasizing it, or just thinking about it? Those are three very different situations.

If you're considering it and having uncontrollable urges, you need to get help immediately. Full stop. You don't need to be specific about it, but you need to tell someone, "I'm having urges to hurt myself." You don't have to say exactly what it is. You just need get help for it.

If you are fantasizing, it's a paraphilia. Essentially, that means a sexual desire considered culturally abnormal. Paraphilias are not dangerous if you can control them and have no real desire to act on them. They should generally be kept private for obvious reasons, unless you want to seek help. If they start to become obsessive/uncontrollable thoughts, you need to seek help (see the first situation).

If you are just thinking about it, as in it enters your mind but seems unappealing, it's normal to have occasional "inappropriate" thoughts about violence. As long as they do not become attractive, annoying or especially obsessive, they aren't a problem.

I agree.

There are fetishes and paraphillias like this. But seriously, do not castrate yourself. Do not do any body mods like this until you're older and you can really judge - your hormones are bouncing around so much right now, you're bound to make mistakes and before choosing to do much body modification besides piercings takes some maturity.