our relationship is secret

[chelsay13]

ok, i have a boyfriend.
we've been dating for like....1 and 1/2 months. i haven't told my parents because they are always so talkative about how I'm changing and that i should make good choices, blah blah blah.
Should i tell them?
everyone at school know about us. my friends, teachers, all the staff, etc.
its just them that don't know. XD my whole family is keeping it from them.

should i tell them or not?

[Mzor203]

It's your decision. It's your life. You're still a teenager, so right now it doesn't have to be anything serious, so if you don't want to, you don't have to. But in the future, if it turns into a serious relationship, then you may want to think about it.

[chelsay13]

its IS a seriouse one. we're always holding hands eating together sitting with each other at school. lol, we made out at a library. i'm just kinda scared to tell them. what fi they make a huge deal out of it.

[Mzor203]

I'm sorry for the confusion. I mean when it turns serious as in when you guys are to the point where you would feel comfortable having sex, or even taking it to the point where you feel like marrying each other.

[Gumleaf]

well i know where you're coming from because i kept my girlfriend a secret from my parents too. in the end they found out (kissing outside the front door probably wasn't a good idea when your relationship is secret lol) and it didn't bother them much at all. now of course not all parents are the same but i think if you can show that you can be responsible and have a boyfriend, then there shouldn't be any problems.

[chelsay13]

ok &&
thanks :)