erg.. please help

[Kietkarbad]

alrite... i been having gay thoughts.. and they are from... me thinking will i be gay.. cus i have experimented b4.. didnt know it was wrong i was a kid... but that was then.. iam 16 now.. and like 3 weeks ago got hi... gay thoughts came in.. and they r like am i gay.. will i be gay.. shit i think iam gay.. but i nvr had those thoughts b4.. is it my past? i regret it deeply i do.. i LOVE girls like you dont know what kind of girl lover i am.. i nvr found a guy attractive in anyway.. i cant see myself with a guy at all.. i just cant see myself gay.. am i gonna turn gay or is this cus of the weed or is there a reason y i just suddenly have these gay thoughts?... i repeat DO NOT LIKE GUYS IN ANYWAYS IN MY HEART I KNOW IAM STRAIGHT BUT MY MIND MESSING WITH ME AND ITS AFFECTING ME ALOT so am i gonna turn gay.. cus its like my brains like your gay your gonna turn gay... and iam like how and why... i nvr loved or liked another guy.. i always loved girls dated girls.. guys dont turn me on at all.. nvr had.. but all in serious am i gonna turn gay? cus i jsut cant picture myself being gay... well i have and it makes me wanna throw up... like i cant picture myself cuddling and kissing another men... PLEASE AM I GONAN TURN GAY??? my friends all said iam not gay... but my brains all fucked up and i dont know what to do... my last resort is well i d k.. but am i gonna turn gay from my brain? like its making me think what happens if i do turn gay or sumthing what will happen... but deeply i just couldnt or want to be gay jsut not me ...

[Coesistere]

Woooh there, calm your self. With what ive calculated from the post. i would say no your not gay, and your not going to TURN gay cause there is no way to TURN gay. If you cant see your self at all with a guy then your not homosexual, you most likely curious. Dont let it be such a problem cause if it is you just being curious then these thought will go away by the end of pubery. Just remember if you cant see yourself emotionly or physicly with a male than your not gay. and its PERFECTLY FINE if you have "expirimented". just dont worry, K? :)

[Kietkarbad]

alrite man thanks let hope i can sleep better tonite... cus all my friends are like YOUR NOT GAY and yeah

[myskias]

hmmmmm

[The Batman]

There is a chance that you are gay and this is something that you will eventually have to accept. When i first started getting gay thoughts I was thinking the same as you (no drugs though) that I wasn't attracted to guys and that it was just curiosity and that i still love girls. But as I got older the thoughts came more often and these urges started coming, but i blocked them out and kept saying to myself that I'm not gay. Yet they got stronger and eventually I was like I just might be gay. Then I would lay awake at night crying because I was scared that I would die alone because I didn't want to be gay. I have accepted it now and I'm happier What I'm trying to say is accept the possibility that you might be gay or just bi and don't go through what I did.

[Kietkarbad]

idk man all i kno is being gay just aint me.. i aint gay i kno for a fact.. but whatever makes you happy go for it...

[Kietkarbad]

these thoughts are slipping away... but if u knew me in person you can tell iam FAR FROM GAY like HUGE PUSSY LOVER lol....

[The Batman]

All I'm saying is if it does get stronger don't try and deny it for to long because it will tear at you at you and make you feel depresed

[Kietkarbad]

dude all year iM BEEN THRU MAJOR DEPRESSION... and my friends are like dude your not gay its depression and your lonely and shits jsut happening to you

[dogman]

dont forget, being gay means you have a physical and emotional attraction to men, and from your post, you odviously dont

[Requin]

dont forget, being gay means you have a physical and emotional attraction to men, and from your post, you odviously dont

That's what i was gonna say grrrrrrrr. Anyway dogman's right, you probably aren't gay, and don't let it get to you, it's just your hormones talking. Wait until you've finished puberty, then you should know.