What I haven't exactly told all of you...

[Atonement]

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[Zephyr]

Your dad is something else. He was an asshole then and he's an asshole now, so I wouldn't be as upset over him as you are.

As for your mom bitching at you, why is she doing that? Did your brother provoke her or something by punching her?

[Atonement]

yeah, and about two minutes after I posted, I opened my bedroom door to my mom slapping me...

oh, and by the way, now both my brothers phones have been cut off and my mom is throwing all there stuff in the house outside... and I have a band concert to go to in about... 30 minutes.

[Axellance]

as i have told you on msn this is not your fault and getting molested doesnt make u a "nasty slutty child" your father should have told your cousin that not you!!! your father doesnt sound like he deserves to have addison in his life. He should have got you counceling and help. BTW your cousin belongs in prison.

[Zephyr]

Well, good luck at the concert = )

If you want to talk about it on MSN later, don't be shy.

[Gavin]

I agree with Lance geting molested wasn't your fault, so you shouldn't blame yourself for that happening to you, if anyone is the dirty slut it's your cousin not you Addison, your dad is something else for saying that to his own son.

[LifeIsMyJoke]

Its never your fault. YOur cousin deserves a nice cold dirty cell and the key to be thrown away.

And as for your father, if hes as narrow minded as you make out, I wouldn't worry about what he thinks anyways. It might sounds bad coming from me who you dont know yet, but he sounds like a bit of an arsehole, and for people like him to blatantly accuse innocent people like you of wrongdoing is pathetic.

You've done nothing wrong, in a few years you will be out of home, leading your own happy life, forgetting about the misery of your past, putting it behind you, and starting up a caring family of your own.

Good luck, and hope that concert was great - Although you dont yet know me, Im always around, so hit me up with a pm if you ever want to talk about anything =]

Best of luck - I'll be back in a few weeks, off to Tassie for 13 days!

Bye bye VT - See you soon, and I wish you the best of luck (again) Atone - remember; Its not your fault.

[Jaxxxxxxx]

I'm guessing your cousen is a guy?

[theOperaGhost]

Sorry this is kind of old now, but anyway. Addison, like everyone said, this is not your fault. Your dad shouldn't blame you, you're the one who got molested. Did your cousin ever get in trouble? He deserves the blame, not you. I hope you can get over this and put it behind you, but that will be hard to do.

If you ever need to talk, I'm on MSN a lot or you can PM me. I'll keep trying to help you as much as I can.

-Jared

[Jaxxxxxxx]

He deserves the blame, not you.

Oh, it is a guy? It does'nt matter, though I was just wondering.

Your dad is wrong, your doing nothing bad that I am aware of. Just keep your head up. Running away is not something I would do and I say that becuase some teens do so, though I would find a counselor to help you with your emotions. Though if you feel like the physical abuse is getting out of hand, I would tell a trusted adult.

I am guessing your dad and your cousen are close? That might be the reason for your dad sticking up for your cousen. Maybe your dad has a good amount of respect and trust from your cousen.