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WowRed
April 26th, 2008, 01:40 PM
Okay well ill sum this up.
My old friends girlfriend ( was current when i met her) around december she messaged me random on msn and we been talking ever since. I was a better "boyfriend" to her than he was, he was a dick. Well they break up around march and shes been triyng to find a new boyfriend, and im a helpless romantic to anyone i really like i have such deep feelings for her.

Well i find out couple weeks she likes me too, but she also likes this other guy, tom. She hangs out with him alot, and shes gone to 1st,2nd,3rd bases if you catch my drift with him... Now ive done 1-2 with her and i love being with her and she wants to be with me alot but i cant always hang out.
She loves to tell me things like "Hey im at toms right now!" and well of course this eats away at me because he is basically my compeition and hes the one in the lead.

Yesterday she told me that after she gets all groomed up shes spending the night at his house, so of course im kinda pissed and bumbed out cuz of course i know something is going to happen.

I have no idea what to do, i act mad at her and stuff but after 10 minutes im drawn back to talk to her and ask about how her day was. Idk if its love or i just like her, but this sucks.
Any recommendations.
sorry for spelling errors i just wanted to get all of this out there.

WowRed
April 26th, 2008, 06:15 PM
thats exactly wat i was thinking but she said that wasnt what she was doing but i mean any chance she does she does it. And she knows i get jealous cuz i get defensive and shit.
For example she got on msn and was like "im at toms!" then text me saying " im going to spend the night at his tmrw" then when we were out with friends thursday she gets right in my face and goes "tom tom tom" and smiles and i was like "idc it doesnt bother me"
it just really pisses me off

bri-
May 30th, 2009, 08:21 PM
well, from a girls perspective that's a horrible thing to do.. making a guy jealous is one thing but going to 2nd or 3rd base with 2 different guys is wrong. it's sounds to me likes she's not worth your time. maybe you should just back off a bit and leave her alone... when she sees that you don't react at all when she mentions this Tom guy maybe she'll stop flirting with him and decide who she want's to be in a relationship with. but,you sound like too good of a guy to have to go through this