omg im so pissed at my mom and dad

[yomomo]

My mom treats me bad compare to my brother and sisters.. i hate it... like i do so much in the family, i fix all the computers daily, i help around the house, and all my brothers and sisters do is.. "i want this.. i want that" and they get it sometimes, and i never get anythign i want or ANYTHIGN i dont get ANY privacy i have to have my computer in the middle of the living room and my dad comes over and READS MY CHATS I HAVE WITH MY FRIENDS! my mom just like seriously called me dumb today when she got my report card... shes like.. smart people can do better then this....

I love computers right, i build them, ect.. my dad wont let me buy any computer parts anymore.. of ebay or anything. the other day i was chilling watching tv and dinner time... then went back to watching tv and my mom kicked me off i got mad at her because i was int he middle of watching tv.. and i got mad and yelled at her and said she couldnt rly do that.. and she banned me from my computer.. i said i dont care and i went on and my dad come over and unplugged my computer (lets just forget the reasearch paper that i had open) so i yelled at him and told him i was leaving.. and i just wanted to leave.. i walked out.. and my dad TACKLED ME.... i mean wtf! and like strangled me and punched me..

so yeah im pretty pissed

[myskias]

did this just happen?? i dont really know what to say to this, are u trying to just get anger out or do u want help with something? if so what do u need help with?

PS im sorry ur parents are pissing u off mine do that alot also, and my two brothers do the same thing

[yomomo]

both.. the dad part happened two weeks ago which is still on my mind.. dunno if i hsould just forget it.. and my mom it just happened today.. and she just bought my sister 3 webkinz...btw... lol.. but yeah i still need to make a choice weather to forgive my dad or not.

[myskias]

u should talk to him about it and ask him why he chose the right actions to tackle you and hit you. talk to him and see what point he was trying to get across. and if ur parents treat u poorly talk to them about it, if nothing changes and they need help with a computer just simply say u have no clue whats going on haha thats what i do. and maybe do something so they cant access anything either.

[yomomo]

haha.. well what sucks is im super shy... but ill probably just figure it out...

[myskias]

same here, its hard to talk to them, maybe leave them a note before u go to school so they cant really say anything that will make u feel shy

[yomomo]

i hate being shy at school also.. wow but yeah do u have aim like i know i just met u but i have a Q

[Maverick]

Moved to the Family and Friends forum.

Here's some advice. Regardless who is right/wrong, always keep your cool and talk maturely. When you argue with them it just creates unnecessary tension.

Relax, talk like an adult, and trust me you'll have less problems.

[Underground_Network]

Damn.. Once I got so pissed like that and walked out the front door and my dad tackled me out on the front lawn... It sucks when you're parents are assholes sometimes.. But you just have to be mature and respect their decisions. You only have to live with them for 17-18 years. It may seem like a long time, but at this point much of it has already passed. You may depend on them in the future and they probably do seriously love you; I mean, you are their child. Just don't worry, hold strong and everything will be fine. My dad is an asshole, and yeah, I've attempted suicide, I've run away, etc... But in the end I know even though he can be a real big asshole and just never listen to me and treat me like I'm shit, I know that deep down he does love me, and he has shown it. He just has a shitty life and he takes it out on me sometimes, but I've seen the good side of him, and he can be a real nice guy. I'm sure that's true of your mother and your father. A lot of the time parents are distressed over something else, not necessarily you, and you misbehaving [in their eyes] is just added stress so they take out all their stress on you. Just comply with what they tell you to do for the next few years. Eventually they'll be gone and you'll be living on your own. If anything you'll probably miss them once you leave.

[The Batman]

Your 13 right? Then I can see why your dad didn't let you leave but I don't see why he had to be so violent. Your starting a phase right now where you start to want to separate yourself from your parents so naturally everything they do will seem like their against you. I'm not saying you were lying but I think that you exaggerated a little bit and that maybe you are being treated a little bit more equal than you think. I think that you should tell them that you feel as if your being treated unequally. Also you say that they use to let you buy computer parts, well to me it seems as if their letting you explore this hobby at their expense so maybe you are also getting what you want.

[Close102]

this sounds like my parents. all i do is ignore it and hope they go way