am I gay.....

[yomomo]

Well im 13... and i have been interested in other guys.. like just like their size under there.... is this considered gay.. and do ut hik it would be ok.. like normal if i asked them about down.. there?

[myskias]

no ur not gay, some people are just curious, like me sometimes i wonder too, but i dont ask them because they dont really know what being gay really means. i dont think u should ask them if u dont want them to call u gay. but i dont think ur gay because for being gay u need to like guys PHYSICALLY and EMOTIONALLY. like could you picture urself marrying a guy? a girl? that should help you figure it out

[yomomo]

marrying a girl... thanks... it still bugs me... but yeah i guess iw ould be laughed at at school.

[myskias]

yea. so just either try to ignore ur thoughts of that or just go along with it until u finally get over it haha. its working for me i just dont really try to look but eventually i will but i dont do it as much anymore.

[yomomo]

I just was nervous like.. i thought they would think the same some how idk.. my friend.. a friend i trust.. i told him about that and he said that was normal, just wanted like.. confrimation from.. more experienced people... but he made it seem like everybody was like that.

[myskias]

well alot of people are like that, but some people who are like that can make fun of you for it because theyre insecure of what they feel also. dont worry about, not all people are like that but some people are. you will grow out of it and ur not gay

[yomomo]

cool..cool... lol.. awesome place here.. fast replies ;).. also what do u think my parents would say if they figured out i registered here.. because they are always.. like big on places i register.. and i havnt told them.. would they understand.

[myskias]

uh i dont know about that, i have random password locks on my computer cause i dont want my parents finding out what i do on the internet (i dont look at porn anymore tho) but if they caught you on here just say its a site where i can ask other teenagers for advice if i need some. its not like its porno or anything. and tell them that u wont give out any private information, so they dont worry.

[yomomo]

Well i do this a lot, but just with other forums.. so yeah they already get pretty pissed but ill just see they just have to accept it.. because i know more about internet security then them...

[myskias]

haha ya, its not a big deal accept for the fact that they might think some of the stuff on here in "innopropriate" for you but it shouldnt. your old enough to know about everything on this site.

[The Batman]

Your 13 right now and your body is becoming sexually mature while its going through puberty so right now it could just be general curiosity, but as you get older it could either get stronger or just go away by itself. I'm not just going to pin it down as curiosity because there is just as big of a chance that you are becoming gay but it's less likely to be that this early in puberty. Just wade it out and see where the thoughts lead to (nothing sexual though) and eventually you will become more aware of your sexuality.

[cdogg]

Theres a kid at my school and one day I saw his boner through his pants and now every chance I get I try to see if he has another boner. And I also think about jacking off with him. Is this gay or not?

[Antares]

Boys Puberty :arrow: Teen Sexuality

[Hola.Mon-]

Eh, I get hard while watching straight sex AND looking at both naked men and naked women... It's awkward, big penis and large, round boobs both just get me hard, but I cannot imagine myself even coming close to being gay/marrying a MALE! >.<

[Jeepmudr16]

That's a tough question to answer, as you would be the best one to know whether you're gay or not. But keep in mind that most guys have a "penis curiosity" and may glance around a little bit in the boys' room. This doesn't make a guy gay, of course. Being sexually aroused when looking around may or may not mean you're gay. Many people get excited at sexuality itself, which is male/female independent. That is, some "get off" on sex itself, not necessarily by whom they're watching or thinking about. Now, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual, yet there are still many negatives about it, and many are kept "in the closet" because of this which can cause some problems. If you are comfortable with being gay, then you shouldn't let that stop you from "coming out" and being proud of it. Those who truly love you will love you anyway. Those who reject you weren't your true friends to begin with. And if they don't love you then screw them.
Another thing is Don't ask them what their size is right there is a chance for you to get the crap kicked out of you or lose a very good friend.
I am going to use me as an example. I'm 15 and I go on the internet looking a guys penis' and wish mine was that big but i'm as straight as a perfectly made steel straight pipe I have sex with girl's alot and if a guy asked me to have sex I would punch him in the face and kick him in the balls and say now try having kids then run off like a scared chicken. I'm not scared of alot of stuff but that scares the SH*T OUT OF ME! but I don't hate gay people one of my best friends is gay and I have no problem with it but I do with Faggets Faries and all the other that try to get laid every day by any one. And that's all I'm going to say.

[dogman]

That's a tough question to answer, as you would be the best one to know whether you're gay or not. But keep in mind that most guys have a "penis curiosity" and may glance around a little bit in the boys' room. This doesn't make a guy gay, of course. Being sexually aroused when looking around may or may not mean you're gay. Many people get excited at sexuality itself, which is male/female independent. That is, some "get off" on sex itself, not necessarily by whom they're watching or thinking about. Now, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay or bisexual, yet there are still many negatives about it, and many are kept "in the closet" because of this which can cause some problems. If you are comfortable with being gay, then you shouldn't let that stop you from "coming out" and being proud of it. Those who truly love you will love you anyway. Those who reject you weren't your true friends to begin with. And if they don't love you then screw them.
Another thing is Don't ask them what their size is right there is a chance for you to get the crap kicked out of you or lose a very good friend.
I am going to use me as an example. I'm 15 and I go on the internet looking a guys penis' and wish mine was that big but i'm as straight as a perfectly made steel straight pipe I have sex with girl's alot and if a guy asked me to have sex I would punch him in the face and kick him in the balls and say now try having kids then run off like a scared chicken. I'm not scared of alot of stuff but that scares the SH*T OUT OF ME! but I don't hate gay people one of my best friends is gay and I have no problem with it but I do with Faggets Faries and all the other that try to get laid every day by any one. And that's all I'm going to say.

what a post, well done in getting it all out

[redcar]

...but I do with Faggets Faries and...
Excuse me? Who are you to use language like that around here? I do not care what you think of someone but when you start talking like that I do. Don't let me see you talk like that again or you will be gone from here.

[Requin]

Well done redcar!!!
Anyway, your only 13! wait for puberty to be over proper before you decide. Just wait dude.

[LifeIsMyJoke]

G'day mate.

I don't think you are technically considered "gay" as for one you are very young at 13, too young to have completed puberty (in most cases) and I am sure that it is just curiosity that is getting the better of you.

As for asking someone, you have to be very careful, as asking the wrong question to the wrong person can either lose you a friend or gain you an enemy.

So I am fairly sure from your posts that you are just curious, and that is completely normal for a boy your age.

Have a good one champ!

[dogman]

[quote=LifeIsMyJoke;288853]G'day mate...[quote]

so australian

[Nihilus]

It may be hormones since you are going through puberty. Wait until puberty is over to decide if you are gay because right now you may be just a little curious

[notsure101]

No you may be just curious or BI or just phase or hormones

[Uhh.Huhh RAN_DOM]

yeah dude i have the same thoughts but i don't think iam gay (or least convince myself iam not) its just out of curiosty but be careful curiosty killed the cat lol

[curiousteen]

if u r physically and emotionally attracted to a guy then yes.
im not saying u r its just a suggestion

[mr.sexy_bomb]

no u r just curius like every1

[lxl]

just a curious though for your age don't worry
im pretty sure everone has the idea of comparing other's sizes and stuff
but you know... just don't act out on it because you are still figuring things out as you go you know?
just take it in and go with the flow, and you will soon know what's up and down

[Mr. Smithers]

When you are a little older you will know for sure.

[BlackBetty]

[quote=LifeIsMyJoke;288853]G'day mate...[quote]

so australian

Do you not like yankees either?? If you don't, me and you got a big problem. J/K LOL!!!

[kerry]

it is just your H-O-R-M-O-N-E-S