A love problem

[jaker905]

I have a friend that is a girl...she thinks that she is fat but i don't think she is and everything like that and we r just friends and we have a small relationship going on right now i am mad love about her...i love her so much that i nearly cry when she get's slightley hurt or when i don't talk to her in a while...:(...in my sleep sometimes i have images in my sleep about us talking and then i wake up crying...i just want to know if it at at all normal to have this much feeling for someone?!?!?!?!?!......I love her so much :wub:is it normal because im realy depressed and im afraid that she is going to end up going out with some other boy...im closer to her than any boy in my school and she is getting hugged by another boy...she said that she likes me better but in school she acts like she likes him more...is this alright to stop worring about and stuff like that???...Im scared of what could happend and im scared of my well being for all my love that i got for her. Please ansewre me this...do you think i should worry and try to fix this??? if so, then how do you think i shoould fix it???

[BeautifulSilence]

The fat thing - usually just a thing us girls do.

Don't worry, I fall quickly and deeply in love with my guy friends quite often. I rarely go out with them because I have a fear of being rejected if I make my feelings clear. But the only times my feelings change is when they move on to hanging around with other people, but even then that will take at least a month to have less than strong feelings.

I think that the best thing for you would be to make sure she knows how you feel. I like to think that if you're madly in love with someone then they must be able to feel those body tingles that you get each time you hug each other. (So, basically, they like you too) and in most of my cases, I find out that they did, only, it's too late because we've both lost those feelings with time.

I can say, with certainty, that being close friends, like you are, she probably has strong feelings for you too.

I wish you the best of luck with telling her! :)

[Atonement]

MOVED TO RELATIONSHIPS AND DATING FORUM

[jaker905]

We arn't much friends now.....she dosn't like that i love her and she said that she is happy that i have a girlfriend now so i won't like her anymore.....she hurt my feelings so bad when she said that... i don't think i like her at all anymore.......she distroyed a special uniqe feeling that nobody else has for her and now she ruined it :(

[sabotaged111]

ohh sorry dude

[jaker905]

i had a smal fit then.....im better now...we are still best friends...she didn't know about hte fit i had but im better now and we are best friends.....the thing is she has sexule feelings about me and she is beutiful and i have sexule feelings for her too and im afriad to end up having sex with her.....i want to have sex and she dose to but im a virgin and so is she and i feel afriad when we are realy close to doing it....is this normal?????can you help me and give me advice on how to handle this?????lol thanks