slutty gf

[wazzler7999]

ok me and my gf were alone in my room we were makin out <explicit parts removed> well after it was all over i said im glad i lost my viginity to u but she stayed silent i asked her if she was avirgin and she said no she had sex with my frend b4 she was drunk and he was too but it tottaly changed the way i look at her and the way i feel about her... what should i do use always helped b4

[Gumleaf]

boys puberty - relationships & dating

[crash007]

Wow. Did she have sex with him while she was dating you? I think you should talk to her more about it and try to work it out with her. She probably never told you because she was scared that you would break up with her. You shouldnt go to your friend and get mad at him because then you may end up losing friends. I mean they were drunk, they didnt really know what was going on. But thats not really a good excuse. I would just sit down and talk to her about it. PM me if u wanna talk more about it.

[Gumleaf]

this must be difficult because i know it makes things feel strange when your perception of someone is forcefully changed like that. i think you really need to work out how you are feeling and why things have changed about how you feel about her. then you need to talk to her about it. you need to tell her how you feel so she can understand how you feel about things. that way you might be able to move on and feel better about things. hope that makes sense.

[Rutherford The Brave]

We shouldn't be using the term "slutty" but I see how your upset. You should express your feelings to her.

[silentc0re]

Dude she was drunk thats what happens but don't change your feelings for her.

[Tree]

Well do you trust her? Like has she ever lied to you before? Because if not, then it was probably a mistake and I bet now she wishes she could take it back. I'm sure you've done something in your past that she might not like, but you can't change it. All you can do is look ahead. So don't let it change anything. Sure it might be a little weird right now but thats what being in a relationship is all about, working on things and forgiving one another.

[Camazotz]

Wait, so shes around your age, 14, and got drunk, and had sex with your friend?

Anyhoo, you can ask her how she feels about you. If she doesnt feel the same way you feel about her, I would break up with her, but it could have been a mistake with your friend.

[ScotsGirl]

We shouldn't be using the term "slutty" but I see how your upset. You should express your feelings to her.

I agree.

I understand you're upset, but why do you refer to her as being a slut? If you really think that, surely she shouldnt be your girlfriend?

Why should it matter who she has or hasnt slept with in the past, as long as the last person is you.
Peoples experiences make them the person they are today, its a case of living and learning. :-)

I suggest you talk to her about the way you feel and why you feel like that.

xxx