Is it possible ill become gay?

[dabomb]

Im 14 and i like girls, always have. I think that everything about girls is cool and i would only want to be with a girl when i grow up.
Im real scared to talk to really really pretty girls, cuz you know your stomache feels all stupid and you cant get the courage.
What if when i get a girlfriend i totally change and become gay?
Is this possible even though i dont want to be gay, i dont feel comfortable about being around naked guys , looking at naked guys, or having a relationship with a guy.
That i can still become gay?

[theOperaGhost]

I don't think you can become gay. Your just not really comfortable with girls yet, but as you get older, you'll get more confidence. I sounds like your completely straight.

[Underground_Network]

Plain and simple; NO. You will not suddenly become gay. At this point if you feel so confident that you are straight there is probably a less than 1% possibility that you'll turn gay. But be aware, I could say that there is a less than 1% possibility that anyone could turn gay; i.e. its not gonna happen. Don't worry, you don't magically become gay, there's a 99% you are straight and will stay straight. :wink:

[Whisper]

Boys Puberty ---> Teen Sexuality

[dabomb]

oh cool

[george]

Your straighter than a this line ________________________
You can't just all of a sudden turn gay because then why would you ever want to ask out a girl? Now if you get that squemish feeling like when your talking to a girl when your talking to a guy then we'll talk :)

[crash007]

ya dude your not gay. Why would you even think you are? If you dont think of guys as more than friends and arent attracted to them, then how could you be gay? It is normal for 14 year-olds to be a little intimidated by the really popular and pretty girls. Don't worry, you will be fine.

[Requin]

Your not gay, as you can't imagine yourself having a relationship with a guy. Your just not confident with girls yet, it'll come don't worry.

[Gavin]

NO, you wont become gay, you just need the courage and the willing to get up and talk to girls.

[japanman]

For talking or asking out pretty girls youll get used to the feeling. So dont worry youll get used to talking to pretty girls but one thing that helps is too just be yourself and to relax, it helps.

[geniusrocksoutloud]

youre the only person who knows if youre gay or not

[Rutherford The Brave]

Your born gay, becoming it well thats a different story cause well you can't. I'd say your just curious and t hats normal.

[Underground_Network]

I don't believe that you're born gay, I think genetics plays a part, but experience and other things in your life also play a part as well. I think you are born leaning towards either straight or gay, or are stuck in the middle, but I think your own decisions also effect your sexuality. I mean at 8 years old you probably will NOT know your sexuality, but you usually figure it out by the time you hit puberty [if not a little after that point]. A lot of people question their sexuality, I know someone who went from gay to straight and didn't really force himself. It's not impossible to change your sexuality [if you really think you're gay not straight or vice versa, but have "been" one of those two and decide you think you're the other]. But I think if you are confident that you are a certain sexuality there is a high percentage chance that you ARE that sexuality. If you think you're straight, you're straight. If you think something is true, 90% of the time it is.

[daking]

Theres no such thing as "turning gay". If your a homosexual, your born that way. Your not straight one day and then wake up the next and magically become gay.

[vulcan12]

no way