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dabomb
April 23rd, 2008, 07:59 PM
Theres this girl i like but i dont know her at all cept for her name.
I see her when i visit my friend almost every saturday.
I think about her alot but i think she probably wont feel the same
I think if i get a chance to know her we could at least be friends, then she could more easily decide if she likes me.
The problem is im african american mixed with indian and other stuff, and she is asian. Around where she lives some people are racist, but not all of them, which im friends with.
I just want to talk to her and be friends but im scared she wont give me a chance because were so different. Also she is 15 and im 14, but i look like 10 and thts also a problem.
I fear were too different.

How should i talk to her and get to know her?

Tyleisme
April 23rd, 2008, 08:03 PM
I don't know what more you can do than just introduce yourself. Just be yourself. What can she do except say no. You can't let rejection make you afraid to do anything or you won't end up doing anything. Just start out little by little talking to her more and more.

theOperaGhost
April 23rd, 2008, 08:07 PM
Yep that's all you can do. Just talk to her. You'll become more comfortable around her when you do that.

silentc0re
April 23rd, 2008, 08:10 PM
Just talk and try to flirt.

Triple7
April 23rd, 2008, 09:54 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Gumleaf
April 24th, 2008, 01:02 AM
well just asking someone if you can be friends isn't like asking someone to be your bf/gf. it would have to be a very shallow person to not want to be friends because of race. i would suggest, like others have said, to introduce yourself to her sometime. it can just be simple like "hi, i'm <name>" hopefully she would introduce herself back and you guys can start having a chat. whether or not you click or find yourself suited to oneanother is another thing, but at least by introducing yourself, you are taking action to get to know this girl and that is certainly a step in the right direction.

andrew1234
April 29th, 2008, 07:50 PM
well i like a girl alot but if u really think about it you wont like anyone if you think about your life ahead of you my advice (not telling u to take it) is not to go out like at this age i put this thought into my head and like no one because only like i dunno 5 percent chance ull bw with them when your older