ive got a question

[vulcan12]

A while ago me and my friend had anal sex at a sleep over. We were alone in my bed at one in the morning. Does this mean that i am gay/ and did i lose my virginity? im a little worried

[myskias]

it doesnt mean ur gay unless you think your gay, try thinking about living a life with a man and marrying one and with a girl what ever u like best might help you to find ur answer, and for the virginity thing im pretty sure you guys lost ur virginity. sorry

[Atonement]

Personnally, I believe losing your virginity is vaginal intercourse, just my opinion. Some people count oral sex and some obviously anal sex too. Well, as for the gay part, it is perfectly normal for you to have sexual curiousities about men at this age. (doesn't mean you need to act on it) Being homosexual is being both physically and emotionally attracted to the same sex. Obviously you seem physically attracted even though it could just be your puberty hormones. Just take a moment to think, can you see yourself spending the rest of your life in love with another man? I am not talking sex, I am talking romance, marriage, MAYBE a family, idk... If not, I highly doubt you are gay. If so, there is a likelihood that you could be gay. Not that I think there is anything wrong with it. :)

[MoveAlong]

Personnally, I believe losing your virginity is vaginal intercourse, just my opinion.

ooo yay, i am a virgin 4 lyfe then

nothing makes you gay. It's impossible. You cannot turn gay. It's like if I try to rap, I will be black, and Eminem has had no luck as much as he's tried

If you enjoy men (overall) more then the ladies then you are probably gay. But if you're attracted to women, you can't be gay

[NextToNormal]

just because you had anal sex with a friend doesnt mean you are gay...for now, just leave it at being curious. unless you are both physically and emotionally attracted to men, youre not gay.
and, yes, you did lose your virginity.

[mr.sexy_bomb]

uh been there we i think ur bi cuz u like both sex

[Requin]

Not sure if i believe this but hey!
Like the others said, if you could see yourself wanting to live with a guy, and you have physical and emotional feelings for guys then you probably are gay, but to be honest, wait until your older to decide, your hormones are deciding things at the moment, just wait. l0l

[gigimon]

only you decide weather you are gay or not, and Bi is always an option where you can have the best of both worlds...

but having anal sex with another many is a gay thing to do

also i dont think that you can say you lost your V-plates, i would say you got your brown-plates though, :)

[Axellance]

umm that was odd advice gigimon....

first of all in my opinion u totally lost your virginity....

but a lot of guys experiment so you could be gay but its not for sure you night be perfectly str8.

[Sugaree]

I just think that losing your virginity means vaginal sex not sex with a man but that's my view. it doesn't really mean you're gay. If you are physically and emotionally attracted to him then you are gay

[Kietkarbad]

nahh as long as your dont like him physcially or emotnioal your not gay... rite now

[vulcan12]

thanks guys

[dogman]

to not be a virgin means u have had sex, or sexual penetraction, which would include anal sex, so you may not be a virgin anymore (this means gay guys are not going to be virgins for life)

there is no need to be worried, it is "normal" in puberty to expairiment, i do not think you are gay, because being gay means you like men both physically and emotionally, which you may not, so basicly, i put it down as curiosity

[coolkid2]

i just want to say your probibly not gay if you dont think so and how did you guys give anal at a sleepover did you take showers after?

[HOLEinyoursoul]

you did not loose your virginity. it does not make you gay. by the way, how old were you when this happened?

[Schon]

This does not make you gay, however considering it is penetrative sex, you did loose your virginity.

[Schon]

also i dont think that you can say you lost your V-plates, i would say you got your brown-plates though, :)

what the hell are you talking about "V-plates" and especialy "Brown plates" wtf mate?

(SORRY FOR DOUBLE POST)

[chris__robin]

you lost your viginity, people saying you didnt are living in this make-believe imagination land where only straight people can lose their virginity with "vaginal sex" ... so gay and lesbians are ever-virgin mother mary?

performing an act can't "make" you gay, you need to think about and decide for yourself if you think you are gay. did you enjoy it? do you like boys or girls? etc etc

[HelloWorld123456]

you did not loose your virginity. it does not make you gay. by the way, how old were you when this happened?

come on how can you not loose your virginity it is penetrative sex + if vaginal sex would only loose your virginty well he did it with a boy ... which means boys have no vagina ... oral sex does not make you loose your virginity BUT ANY pentrative sex makes you loose your virginity ... so youre not a virgin any more ,,, if that was so then only us straight people can loose our virginity and gay ppl would be an ever-lasting virgin ? pfft nonsense

and nothing can make you gay ... this is a question you need to answer ... can you love a man ? or is it just physical attraction but it in that way ..

anyways with being gay there is nothing bad about it ... no-one will judge you