Should I Tell Her...?

[BeautifulSilence]

I'm 14, and I lost my virginity about 2 months ago. I tried to tell my mum, but she'd always be busy and I didn't feel right trying to tell her. I don't intend on having sex any time again soon, because practical the whole of my year group knows that I've had sex. If no one knew, then I wouldn't tell her, but because everyone knows, I feel guilty about her not knowing. But now, I feel like I've left it too late.
What do you guys think I should do?

[Hyper]

Well.. I don't really see a point in telling anyone you lost your virginity.. But if you want to tell her, then go ahead.

[Zephyr]

Don't worry about it hun,
I've never told my mom either.
If you really feel guilty about it or if you don't want her to hear it from somebody else, then you should tell her yourself.
Otherwise, it's just something that's part of your personal life.

[NextToNormal]

if its really eating you up inside by not telling her, then i think you should. it would make you feel a lot better. and i think your mom would rather hear it coming from you than from some kid down the street...then when she tries to talk to you about it, things could be a little awkward. so to avoid the awkwardness, just go ahead and tell her.

[BeautifulSilence]

Thanks guys.:) I don't think I will tell her, because I don't feel overly guilty (if ya know what I mean) but if she does find out, then I will explain that I tried to tell her.

Well.. I don't really see a point in telling anyone you lost your virginity.. But if you want to tell her, then go ahead.

Well, I only planned on telling my best friend (we share EVERYTHING) but the boy I done it with told his mate who then told everyone, which is why I felt a little guilty about my mum not knowing.

[silentc0re]

Do not tell her except if you really need too.