Too inexperienced to get work, to ugly to get a girlfriend

[dreamofdante]

I'll be 20 soon and I have really no hope left in me. I'm very ugly and have been rejected my entire life. And I have no real talents for anything and I don't think I'll be able to get a job. I'll probably be homeless soon. I don't even know what to do anymore. I feel like I'm hopeless, guys.

[dxcxdzv]

No talent no work? It doesn't really work like that... What studies are you doing?

I don't believe you with "I'm too ugly", I don't think you are a monster dude and humans are biologically programmed to be attracted by humans. You'll never see that someone likes you if you thinks it's not possible.

[dreamofdante]

No talent no work? It doesn't really work like that... What studies are you doing?

I don't believe you with "I'm too ugly", I don't think you are a monster dude and humans are biologically programmed to be attracted by humans. You'll never see that someone likes you if you thinks it's not possible.

I don't even know what to do. I have no money and neither does my family really. My whole life I never knew what to do. And working at fast food restaurants is hardly a job and I'll end up homeless.

I could PM a picture but I don't know if it'd do any good. I've been rejected for eight years straight because of my looks and yeah pretty much friendzoned as the cliche says.

[dxcxdzv]

You have a high school diploma, right?

There's no need of a picture.

[dreamofdante]

You have a high school diploma, right?

There's no need of a picture.

Yes I do.

If you say so but anyone else would beg to disagree...

[ObliviousCat]

Have you ever thought about being self-employed?

Also, trust me, you'll get a girlfriend someday. It might not be soon but the love and adoration you're seeking will find its way to you. I understand that you think you're unattractive, but don't we all? In all honesty, the flaws we see in ourselves are so minute that others don't even notice them. You may think you're ugly while others will think you're extremely attractive...it happened and still happens to me. I think I'm horribly ugly and I'm taken aback when people say the opposite. It's just how we're wired, I guess. Just don't make the same mistake I did and accidentally push people away or shut them out when they give you compliments. You may feel compelled to disbelieve them, but that's probably one of the worst mistakes you can make if that person is being genuine.

[dreamofdante]

Have you ever thought about being self-employed?

Also, trust me, you'll get a girlfriend someday. It might not be soon but the love and adoration you're seeking will find its way to you. I understand that you think you're unattractive, but don't we all? In all honesty, the flaws we see in ourselves are so minute that others don't even notice them. You may think you're ugly while others will think you're extremely attractive...it happened and still happens to me. I think I'm horribly ugly and I'm taken aback when people say the opposite. It's just how we're wired, I guess. Just don't make the same mistake I did and accidentally push people away or shut them out when they give you compliments. You may feel compelled to disbelieve them, but that's probably one of the worst mistakes you can make if that person is being genuine.

I'm not sure what I would do if I self-employee myself.

The thing of it is, I've been called ugly by so many people over the years. And I see all my flaws daily now. I've never kissed a girl and I'm 20 years old at the end of the year. I really doubt you're ugly at all and girls generally have lower self esteem. Sometimes older people will say I'm handsome but people our age don't ever say it at all.

[monst3rinyouri]

Go for golf course maintenance. That's what I'm doing bro. Sure, I gotta get up at 4:30 with work starting at 6, but I get off at 2 and get $8/hour.
It's pretty much the most basic job lol. But it's money!!!! I gotta remind myself of that each day when I roll outta bed--occasionally I wind up face-down on hardwood flooring [emoji14]

[dreamofdante]

Go for golf course maintenance. That's what I'm doing bro. Sure, I gotta get up at 4:30 with work starting at 6, but I get off at 2 and get $8/hour.
It's pretty much the most basic job lol. But it's money!!!! I gotta remind myself of that each day when I roll outta bed--occasionally I wind up face-down on hardwood flooring [emoji14]

That sounds nice I guess...